[happybeachy1]

Thanks – I am not sure what dialing up the flirtation means. How do I flirt with someone who is so far away? And to be honest, that prolongs my agony sitting here “waiting for him to take the bait”. What about just walking away and the old “if you love something set it free…..”?

[happybeachy1]

I should also add that when I’d go to see him, it didn’t matter who he was seeing, he’d tell them “tough luck” and break it off with them. He’s very hurt that I have not had him meet my family or friends. I realize I’ve probably hurt him along the way. I took his “i’m damaged” words at the beginning too seriously to even consider that he (and I) might want more.

[happybeachy1]

We are both in our 40s and yes there was sex. He seemed to always resent that I described the relationship as FWB but to me that’s all it was (or so I thought).

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