Thank you very much, it is what I needed to hear. Hard to accept, but I still needed it. Is there any value in asking her for advice as to why I am not attractive to her, to learn something for doing better with the next woman? Or is this too pointless and futile? I want to learn from this experience with her as much as possible, but if it is pointless and damaging to at least keeping her as a platonic friend, then I won’t do it.