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Hello,
There are plenty of free dating websites and some of them are for single parents. I was recently in your position, a single mother with a little boy just trying to have a good life. So, I was also curious as to whether or not there were any free dating websites for single parents. So I got on the internet and typed in a whole bunch of key words like dating, single parents and kept trying till I found what I was looking for. I came across this website http://www.singlemomsanddads.com so I registered and It seems to be a good website to me and it is free what more can you ask for right. Just try it out you’ll never know if its the right one for you until you try. Four months ago I found a wonderful man online and we’ve been dating since then and I found love again and Im as happy as can be. I havent been this happy in a long time and he too has a little boy my sons age. I didnt however find him on that website. He found me on myspace.

My advice is to go for it and have patience you will find the right guy for you just don’t rush it. Not to freak you out or discourage you but I had been single for four years after I left my sons father. Don’t get me wrong in those for years I did date a few guys but they werent right for me. My point is I didnt rush it and I didnt give up or lose hope and I found a wonderful man.

Good luck and I hope everything goes good.

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Dear confused,
I’m sorry to hear that your relationship is having problems. Most of us who care about our relationships dread about the day when we are going through tough times in the relationship so it is normal for you to be concerned. Though it is also normal to have tough times in your relationship. Relationships arent always going to be perfect even though most of wish for that. Just know that it cant always be kisses, hugs and beautiful words.It can only be as good as you BOTH make it, yes sometimes its going to hurt and you BOTH can be as happy as you want to be, but you BOTH gotta make it work. I understand your feelings about her being friends with her ex and spending time with him. You have a right to disagree with that and feel the way you feel. If she was in your position Im pretty sure she wouldnt appreciate it either. I just started dating my boyfriend around four months ago and a few months before I met him I was seeing my bestfriend I knew for years since highschool, things between us became distant and we stopped talking. I then found out he might have some girl pregnant so after hearing that news I moved on and met the guy Im with now. Long story short my bestfriend heard that I was seeing someone and tried to get in contact with me. I told him that I was sorry how things ended up between us but I was in a serious relationship now and didnt feel that it was right for me to still talk to someone I had a past with and I wouldnt appreciate it if my boyfriend was talking to a girl he had a past with either. Also, that it would make things complicated in our relationship and I wasnt willing to risk that. It does seem obvious that she still has feelings for ex. I feel that it is wrong for her to disregard your feelings and still talk to her ex. It is obvious that she is only thinking of her feelings. It is also wrong of her to be concerned with her exs feelings and to put his feelings first before yours because when the two of you got into the relationship you both made a commitment to eachother and it seems that she isnt handling her end of the commitment to you and yalls relationship. Im sure that she still loves you. Also, anyone that says they dont love their exs anymore is a lie. Dont get me wrong it might not be the same strong love that they used to have but there is still love in their heart for them because they were once a part of their life and who they are now. The best advice I can give to you is to talk to her and tell her exactly how you feel and what it is doing to your relationship. Sometimes people overlook things and dont see what is happening so you have to make them aware of it. Most importantly follow your heart and mind.

I hope everything works out for you and I hope what I said helps a little and if you have any more concerns Im happy to help.

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I can kinda relate to what you are experiencing. I’ve only been with my boyfriend for four months and he sometimes makes comments about getting himself a red head, with freckles and green eyes. His ex was white and I am far from his discription I am Hispanic, with brown hair and brown eyes. So when he makes that comment it hurts my feelings and makes me question if he is serious about me. I feel that if he is more attracted to that description then why is he with me and what made him become attracted to me? It is never right for anyone to make their partner question or doubt their relationship. Now, after hearing him make that comment more than once I am worried that if he does find that girl with that description he is going to leave me. Which if that is what he wanted to begin with he should have never got involved with me. As for your boyfriend forgetting your birthday more than once is another issue. I know that there is no excuses for that. If it was turned around on him and you forgot his birthday im pretty sure he wouldnt appreciate it . The best advice I can give to you is to talk to him about how it makes you feel that he forgot your birthday and how you feel about him likeing asian women. If he doesnt understand your feelings about the subjects and apologize for disregarding your feelings by acting that way you are better off without him. Also, I believe that you shouldnt stand by and let him talk to other women online it is not healthy for any relationship and it is not being respectful to you and your feelings. You have a right to protect your feelings and say something to him when you feel his behavior is inappropriate. I hope my advice helps you a little and good luck with everything.

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