April,
Thanks so much for the quick, constructive, and useful reply. Although my decision has still not been done 🙁
I am 22 years old and a college student, therefore marriage and children are no in the radar for at least the next 5 years. Although if I were to imagine who I were to be with in the future, it would be my ex. But when I go out with my single girlfriends, I find that I miss that life and want to play the field again. I brought the fact that I wanted to be single to my ex, it complete upset him, and he still can not accept the fact that I am single.
My wish is that we could separate and date others for the time being, enjoy being young, and in the future, possibly get back together. Am I wrong for thinking that way?
He treats me very well and loves me unconditionally. But for some reason I do not the feel the same back towards him in that same intensity. I believe it is due to the fact that I like this new person.
Meanwhile as my ex and I argue and try to figure out this situation. The other person is standing on the sideline, texting me, wanting to hang out, which I have to shut down for the time being. If I were to be caught hanging out with the new guy, my ex would be furious. In addition, my ex wants a decision from me and has set a deadline.
Thank you again, April.
