Well first, I’m 23 years old. The reason I’m unable to work is bc I have severe scolioisis, epilepsy & a cyst on my spine. My scoliosis is so severe that treatment is useless and surgery is an option although not a guarenteed fix.
As for my boyfriend, he gets mad over the smallest things, if the kids spill a drink, if they make a mess, if he messes something up or does something wrong, even if he hurts himself. He just explodes, screaming, cussing, pounding his fists on things etc. He knows he has a temper problem and we believe he is bi polar. His doctor gave him meds for it and it did help, we all could see a difference. But now he won’t take it, he says he don’t need it.
As far as sex, no I dont want to have sex.. but I do just to please him. If I’m sick or don’t feel like doing it, he will go off bitching and acting like a baby. When he goes off screaming and throwing one of his tantrums, I normally say stuff like “Its not that big of a deal, just chill out” or “God, calm down its not that bad”… I normally don’t raise my voice unless he really upsets me.
Our son goes to school during the day, so I just have to take care of our daughter who is good child so it’s not a problem. Taking care of my kids isn’t hard, they are at the age where they aren’t so dependent. But as far a working, it’s not an easy task. I cannot stand for but short periods of time, nor can I sit too long. Plus, I have the epilepsy and other things.. I would love to work, I think it would make me feel better. I’m just unsure what to do. I’ve tried talking to him, pretty much give him ultimatiums such as if he dont stop with the temper, he’s gonna have to leave etc. I just don’t want my kids to be around the stuff. But, they love their Daddy dearly, especially my son. They would be devastated if their daddy weren’t here with them.
Thanks again!
