The passion just instantly increased after our first convo and we implemented a few things from your program. THANKS FOR THAT! It was like magic, just talking about it made it work again. Sex increased. Holding hands. KISSING. Surprises. Could have to do it was v-day and his birthday short after but here I am again, back to serious place in a relationship where I can honestly say now IS ON THE ROCKS and there is little to no passion.
lately he is off his mission with work. He asked for a raise, and instead he got rejected, and now he expected to do more work (the work of two people). After this happened it took 2 days for him to talk about it with me because he was so angry about what happened. I mentioned the stress and disappointment and not knowing if he will ever get recognized for his hard work might be affecting his passion for us. He said maybe, but usually he can not let work affect his relationships. He also mentioned that he may be depressed because of this.
We had another convo last night about passion and what seems to have happened this time. We agreed that last time we discussed it, it fixed itself for a little, but now we are back. He seems unsure, but I think it has to do with the fact that he thinks we are such different people. To be specific, he thinks we are two very different people one way because I’m a little messy, and he is almost OCD clean. This is something almost impossible to change *(unless you have insight).
Him dwelling on these differences have decreased his passion for me, is that a logical assumption? If so, How can we fix it?
Does a man getting off center in his purpose with his career cause maybe a lack of passions?
we are at the stage right now where we have outlined (written down) the issues we have (differences, lack of passion, me being overly emotional), but havent come to a conclusion on what to do to fix it?
PLEASE HELP
