[zppypmpy]

Hmmn…..I wonder what April will say? I am going to really go out on a limb, and go with, WTF??? Are you serious? You haven’t seen or talked in 9 months and he already wants you to start spending. Hellooo….

[zppypmpy]

I think I pretty much knew all this… I guess I am having a hard time swallowing it….if I thought she were a total flake I’d have no problem, but when you see the good qualities, you wonder why you aren’t able to reach someone. Time to walk I guess, Thanks. It will be interesting to see if there’s any change after I cut it off.

[zppypmpy]

I think you made some assumptions about my situation that aren’t accurate and decided not to respond to the relationship issue I asked about….I have been told I have the job I applied for, there have been HR ISSUES that keep popping up and I have been pushed back for almost three months a week at a time. I am addressing my situation, and I am a good father and always have been. I’m a little frustrated that you assume I am using her somehow, you seems to chastise me and didn’t address my relationship at all.

[zppypmpy]

I have, and am. I am a little put off that you say I am using her, and her life……The circumstance is a little unique. And I think you have made some assumptions that are maybe not accurate. I’ve actually been told the job was mine, they have been having issues getting the paperwork through the system, and have had to rework some policy/procedures, etc. and they have been pushing my start date back for a couple months I haven’t been using her for anything. I was asking about the relationship. Apparently you think she isn’t an appropriate partner? I want her to re-evaluate things…because the conclusions she arrived at about some things aren’t correct. How should I approach this?

[zppypmpy]

Wow. Just to give you some idea of what lies ahead…..gambling addictions have the highest rates of relapse of any of the addictions. The fact that he’s poly-addicted makes it exponentially worse. He’s hitting you. Leave this guy yesterday, bite the bullet, and never look back. EVER! He will not change, only get worse. You are at a life defining crossroads, and you are in grave danger.
GET OUT!!! RUN!! don’t walk!

[zppypmpy]

Wow, I don’t know if you had some major issues…but you have been together for 6-8 years? And he’s telling you that you have to work on yourselves first? Honey, don’t hold your breath. From a man’s perspective, (of course you don’t say much in your post) He’s thinking you aren’t the one, or you are the comfort zone for him.

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