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- November 12, 2012 at 9:23 am #5701
Cara212Member #196,088I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months, we live together in a shared house, But for the past few weeks we have been going through a bad patch, we argue over the smallest little things, he is always digging at me for everything i do and i really do a lot for him but nothing never seems to be enough! and he never really has anything nice to say to me. He also hits me as when we argue it always leads to a fight. Its really getting me down physically and emotionally and i don’t know what to do.? I really love him,as when we have our good times they are Great!! But we seem to have good days and bad days! he has suffered from depression in the past and does always have a lot of issues going on, and sometimes he doesn’t talk to me about his problems, he smokes cannabis and drinks on a regular basis, and has a gambling addiction! I just want to be happy and i thought he was the man i was going to marry but i really don’t know anymore.. He has seemed to have changed in the last 3-4 months. He has a really good job. But i just want some advice on what to do and how to deal with this relationship, do i just up and leave? or do i bare with it and see if he changes? I just need questions so i can answer to myself.
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November 12, 2012 at 2:49 pm #23457It’s time for you to leave. 🙁 Physical violence is no joke, and you need to call the police and report the battery. Any man who hits you is someone to stay far away from. His substance issues and his gambling addiction are just extra reasons to go, but the violence is the last straw.Move out today — and move on with someone who understand that violence is not part of any relationship.
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[url][/url] [/b] November 25, 2012 at 5:11 pm #23687zppypmpyMember #359,694Wow. Just to give you some idea of what lies ahead…..gambling addictions have the highest rates of relapse of any of the addictions. The fact that he’s poly-addicted makes it exponentially worse. He’s hitting you. Leave this guy yesterday, bite the bullet, and never look back. EVER! He will not change, only get worse. You are at a life defining crossroads, and you are in grave danger.
GET OUT!!! RUN!! don’t walk!January 18, 2016 at 12:33 pm #31796Happy New Year! Let me know how things are going for you. 😉 I am here to help, and happy to answer any questions you have.
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