[Dee3]

Thank you so very much April!

Your response has helped me immensely! I am going to take your advice and kindly set those boundaries in the event of any other episode that may occur that needs change. I care about him so much, and recognize the grieving stage from going through it in the past with my divorce. I am so grateful for your thoughts on this, as I am now feeling reassured and prepared with a new action plan. You are right! I do not feel secure in the relationship at this point, and in order to be there for him while he heals I need to state what feelings I have, what I am okay with and what I am not. I will work on gently handling this with love, and send him the message that I want to be number one in his life. I will also take any needed breaks away at times when I feel that we need space.

Much Appreciation and Gratitude April!

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