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Hi April. I hope it’s not too cheeky to ask you something else but you know the back story. Things have been going great, or so I thought until today and now I feel gutted. So my crush went for a job interview today. We have msn at work and later today I saw her login. I asked her how the interview went and she replied that it went well and that she was drained and then sent another message saying she would be in the office on Monday. I felt like she didn’t want to speak to me and that I was just a colleague to her and that she was basically saying end of convo. So I said sorry I thought you were working from home and see you next week. She then said it’s ok, chatting is not working my friend. Then we said a couple more things about the interview and then she said she had to go and bye my friend. I feel like she is firmly telling me I’m in the friend zone? She has once before called me her friend before, when I walked into her room at work she said here comes my friend. From the things that I have told you in my previous posts, is it just friendship that she sees between us do you think?

[Pops66]

Hey April thanks for the advice 🙂

I’m 30 and she’s 49, I’m not bothered by the age gap that but she has said things like, when I have been stood with another colleague that we both look gorgeous unlike mum (meaning herself).

I really like her more than just to have sex with her, I think that’s why I’m so hurt with her behaviour right now. I’m just scared she may not actually like me like that and she thinks I’m being weird or something and that’s why she is ignoring me.

So yeah I wanna date her. So I don’t know how to get her to stop ignoring me. I had been trying to bump into her more to get her to chat but that hasn’t been working well. Then I thought maybe I need to be less available?

I’m unless I know 🙁

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