[elva]

Hi April!

Thanks for your input, I appreciate it! With reconciliation I know we need to be in on it both, and since I have stayed away from contact and she hasn’t tried to write or call me so far, I guess it is more starting over than reconciling. I guess my point is, if I should try to fight for her or not. I did ask her during the actual breakup if I should, but she just said “I don’t think so…” and sounded more sad about it than sure — but at the same time, who answers yes to a question like that? It was stupid of me to ask, I know.

I guess the advice I really need is – how do I figure out if there is a chance for us again, after haven’t been in contact, and how do you go about making that move again? I’ve never really tried before. But yes, I think I’d regret not giving it my all!

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