[EastCoaster82]

Hi April,

First of all thank you SO much for taking the time to read my post and respond so quickly!! I took your advice and told him that I thought about it and actually won’t be able to make the trip to SJ. Not only did he not offer to come and visit me or take me out to dinner or anything to rectify the situation, he simply replied with a casual nicety and I haven’t had a text from him since and I probably won’t ever hear from him again which actually, I am more than okay with. Because as you said, it clearly shows his level of interest which is non existent and obviously why would I waste my time on someone like that. Like I said, I don’t expect the man to do everything, pay for everything, etc. but I believe, as you said, that if a man truly has interest in you he will make that effort especially for the first meeting.

So again, thank you for the advice. It probably saved me a lot of frustration with this guy.

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