[FallenAngel]

Very Helpful!!!! Thank you 😀

[FallenAngel]

Re: I am overreacting?

[quote]Fill me in a little — how long were you dating? Living together? And why did you break up?

When you break up with someone, the reason for the break up is very important when you’re considering reuniting. So knowing some background information will help. 😉[/quote]

We dated for almost two years, we moved very fast and moved in together right away. We broke up because we had terrible communication and well he’s pretty much the text book definition of a narcissist. We had some loans in our name together so we have had to get along and keep in communication and he’s being trying to win me back ever since. He tells me that I am the love of his life and he will always wait for me. I have been using him more for a booty call than he was using me but I did have hopes that since our communication has gotten so much better we might have a chance. But you may be absolutely right and he may not be that into me. Today he asked if he “could see me sometime soon” and I replied with “that would be nice”, his reply was “whenever you’re ready I’m ready”. I haven’t responded. I am a single mom that works full time and I have military obligations so my schedule is jam packed so usually he waits for me to tell him when I have time available and then we make whatever plans but how do I get him initiate a date and to commit to a plan when I’m the busy one. If he can’t or wont then I will know for sure he has no desire to be with me.

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