[Kindguy37]

Yes, but it was a few years ago and it was after she asked about the relationship and we were spending a lot of time together (in college). She surprised me with the kiss. After that we kissed all the time.

It’s a little different trying to figure out the dynamics when it’s someone where I don’t even know if she liked me that way. It’s also tough because we only have a few days in person. I really like this girl, but I don’t know what to do

[Kindguy37]

[quote=”April Masini”]Did you kiss her?[/quote]

No, but I really want to and wish I knew how to get to the point where I can. Should I kiss her on the cheek to greet her next time I see her? I’m completely clueless how to initiate kissing her on the lips or if it’s even appropriate. We’re laughing and having these great conversations and enjoying each others company, but I don’t know how to figure out if she likes me the way I like her. If she doesn’t I don’t want to do something that embarrasses me and ruins our parents friendship too.

[Kindguy37]

[quote=”April Masini”]Hmmmm….. You asked what to do, and I answered, but now you seem to be rephrasing the same question in different ways, and avoiding my answer. So let me ask you a question: Is there a reason that you won’t simply ask her out on a date? ❓ It’s pretty a straightforward dynamic…. Is there something going on that’s keeping you from asking her out? Dating her is [i]how[/i] you go from friends to romance. 😉

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I don’t know how to ask her out on a date vs. what I already did, which was plan activities and meals and spend a couple days alone with her. If I spend another couple days with her in July what makes that a relationship vs. 2 friends hanging out? So I guess I’m confused by your answer of “ask her out” since I don’t know what that really means and what steps to take to see if she’s interested in me romantically vs. just a friend.

[Kindguy37]

[quote=”April Masini”]Then, wait until July, when you’re within driving distance, and then ask her out!

Or, you can fly to see her and take her out on a date where she lives.

This seems kind of obvious — am I missing something?

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Yes. I don’t know how to go from the “friend stage” to actually get into a romantic relationship.

When I saw her before I asked her out to multiple meals with just the 2 of us and we spent a couple days together. If I ask her to spend time and do things with me again in July how will this lead us to be romantically involved? I don’t want to just “be friends” with her if she’s as interested in me as I am in her. I’d like to be in a real relationship with her and consider marrying her. So how do I get there from where we are now?

[Kindguy37]

[quote=”April Masini”]Ask her out on a date! 😉

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How? She is in another state now? We won’t be within driving distance till July.

When we were in the same area I asked her out several times just the 2 of us and she agreed.

What do I do now?

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