Thank you, I am not sure if she will want to work with anyone else, however I am going to start looking for someone else to help her. As for the way he is treating her, they had a big fight last night, all because Saturday night she was out and he was going to pick her up at 11:30pm. The bus was late and she let him know a few minutes before he was heading out the door. He was so angry that she did not give him more time and he made a huge big deal out of it. He told her to talk to him when she sobered up and never did pick her up, I did. My daughter hardly ever drinks and in the ten months they have been together, he should know that. Last night she messaged him and he went on a tirade about how disrespectful she was and that she was messing with him and he doesn’t like being messed with. She tried to explain to him that it was an honest mistake, she really didn’t think to contact him earlier. He kept repeating that he couldn’t believe he had to explain to her about basic respect and him explaining to her will not change the person she is. She is totally shocked and unsure of what brought all this about because her bus was half an hour late. I feel there is more going on and he is not being honest with her. She tried to make peace last night and told him she understood why he was angry and apologized for it. When he went on and on about it, she said, I am sorry, I don’t know how many times I can apologize. She then said can we put this behind us and he said “That’s fine”. Is there any light you can shine on this and any ideas on how she can deal with this? I think she should give him space and let him come to her, however she is worried she is losing him. Thank you.
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