I should also mention, I accepted his first friend request but quickly deleted him.. He posted the following on his facebook.
“Beauty without class is like a Monet on a napkin.”
That was a dig at me for what had happened. I deleted him because I felt like he just wanted me to see some of the mean things that he was posting. It’s almost like he wants me to hurt, he wants me to be sad. I just don’t get it.
When he thought I dumped him, he would say mean things without actually saying them if that makes sense. I consider myself an intelligent woman and I don’t put up with being disrespected or manipulated but for someone reason, I have let him do both of these things to me? I should also mention… He’s a charmer which I usually stay away from men like him but we had so much in common. His words and his actions were matching up so I thought I would give it a shot. He bought me several expensive things (which I told him not to do) It actually made me feel uncomfortable. I have a college degree and a good job… I didn’t need him to buy me things but he insisted. He is now asking for the LV purse back that he bought me? Should I give it back? Like I said, I’ve never been in this situation before. I offered to sell the purse and donate the money to charity. I told him that I would give him a receipt for tax purposed but he says he wants it back? Ugh, I’ve gotten myself into a mess!
I take responsibility for what I did that night. I should have stayed away from the alcohol knowing that I had been so upset. I think that’s why I was still responding to him because I feel so guilty about what happened.
Is there anything I can do to make this situation better because I do feel horrible… Thanks again
