Thank you, April. Yeah this situation really came out of nowhere and she and I are both definitely considering realities with this. Had this not occurred in such a fashion, she having exhausted all of her options, everything would be fine. I’m wondering with both her and my schedules if people really do have the ability to just slow down or take a break without signifying that they want to seperate. Her ex has kind of made it clear he doesn’t want me in his home, which of course both her and I recognize a degree of control. We want to be together, but I’m really wondering if certain circumstances just can’t be overcome