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    lansing
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    Rather than having to talk to her until mid-May on the prospect she likes me, could I just ask her if she is interested in me? I mean, my interest in her is contingent on her interest in me–the reason I started to like her was because of her initial interest in me that seems to have gone away. If she doesn’t like me, I don’t think it is worth it for me to try and convince her to like me. I’d rather just know now, because waiting so long is not worth it if she is just gonna reject me later.

    So, can I just ask her this? If I can, how do I ask her in a way so she knows I don’t me like as in find me interesting, but as in physical attraction?

    I want to sound straightforward rather than needy. I don’t want it to come across in a way that makes it sound like I’ll be disappointed if she doesn’t like me, because honestly I can handle it and I just want an honest answer.

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