Thank you for your replay.
I haven’t looked at this way; it makes sense. You’re right about him wanting a relationship really bad (not so much marry) and I did have some practical aftermath from my divorce.
With overdrive I meant the first months, after 3 dates he wanted me to meet his kids, after 3 months he talked about the moving in…. After a couple of months I trusted him and felt he was sincere. We were working towards something, talked about it. I still don’t understand why he dumped me that sudden; the slowing down wasn’t an issue anymore. But for him it might have been. I don’t know.
It hurts because he said loved me so much, I was his princess….bladibla. Do men have an on/off switch for feelings? The next day they can say the same thing to another woman?
He is with the new woman for 8-9 months, he is done playing the fields by now? It would be more logical that he is completely focused on that woman and removed me from his system?
