[Jrob62290]

[quote=”April Masini”]To avoid further confusion, you can tell her that you’re only interested in a dating, romantic relationship with her, and that you aren’t interested in anything else. And then, with that explanation, stop communication, so she can have the space without you to decide what she wants. In about six months, you can contact her to see if she’d like to go on a real date with you.

Hope that helps!

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Ok! I will try and see if this works. As for the 6 months, if i feel like i should take a chance earlier, than I will! Thank you April!

[Jrob62290]

We haven’t spoke in three days, I should wait for her to text me, right? And then still if she does text me, how should I respond?

[Jrob62290]

Yeah that’s what I think is my only option at this point. Do you think it can help if she doesn’t have me, to help her realiZe she wants to be with me? It’s always been we would break up and then continue to talk and I would remain there for her and we would get back together. So maybe by cutting it off completely, it can help her with what she really wants? We haven’t talked in 3 days now so.

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I have been honest and secure with everything I do.

[Jrob62290]

I have done that. I have shown her and shown her. I told her all the right things. She just can’t seem to move past it. I’ve done it more than enough. I don’t want to give up, but idk what else to do. Because she said I’ve done all the right things. She just can’t get over it. What can I do?

[Jrob62290]

we’ve been dating for more than 3 years.

[Jrob62290]

[quote=”April Masini”]You haven’t really said what you want….. do you want to be broken up? Or do you want to reunite?

Also, how old are you both, and how long did you date before breaking up? You wrote that she has trust issues from her past with you — fill us all in. What are the details of these trust issues. 😉

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I want to be with her. Thats all I ever wanted. She is 22 and I am 25. I have lied about things to her from the first year of our relationship. There wass this girl i flirted with before we started dating. And She saw a flirty convo on Facebook. She saw that and was upset. I ended up going to a party she had just to hangout with all of my friends and didn’t tell her i went. She found out. Also, I lied about looking up other girls on Facebook and she saw that i looked up my ex. Also, i went on vacation with my friends and one of the nights the bars were closing and the only place open serving alcohol was this strip club. I didn’t do anything there, i just chilled and waited for my friends to want to go back to our condo. I just chilled with 3 of my friends while my other friends did there own thing. So, i lied to her about that and said i didn’t go and eventually I told her after she asked me for the 4th time 1 month later. Thats whats happened in the past. So, yeah. What is the next step?

[Jrob62290]

April, do you have any advice for me?

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We’ve talked about it some many times though, and I’ve been willing to do whatever it takes and have done so, i mean I’m still willing to show her that, but i feel like its on her now. She said I’ve done everything right and she just can’t trust me and she doesn’t believe she can ever trust me fully again. Thats why idk what to do. maybe take time apart and real time meaning no contact for a while? think that can work?

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