I never looked at me saying the L word first would be a form of pressure for him. The one thing I have been doing is not pressuring him. I understand that yes, girls feel faster then guys and I know how hurt he’s been in the past so I’ve be willing to wait. I’m not frustrated by him. He’s a wonderful man and I know that the both of us have a lot to learn.
I see your point about waiting to say it first. Let the guy make that move. I have no issues not saying it to him and I don’t say it everyday. It’s just once in awhile I say it. But from now on my lips will be sealed!
I haven’t heard from him yet today.. If he doesn’t decide to tuck his tail and go hide I will let you know how it plays out.
