Thanks so much for your advice. We were talking and texting this past week like u would not believe he says he misses me and cant wait to see me all he thinks about is me and how happy he is that we are together. He asked me to get together with him this evening but I get out of work very late and have to be back early tomorrow morning on top of a long drive so I declined. He should understand he works double shifts and overnight shifts and commutes a distance too. So we decided to get together this Saturday all day. This all happened last night and this morning he sends me a text message that says “don’t forget u are coming over tonight after work and u can stay over” I texted back and said that we went thru this last nite and I am unable to come over tonight but we are getting together Saturday. Well I have not heard anything from him today at all I think something else is going on. I know he worked all night last nite but not to hear from him at all today was odd but this is not the first time he pulls immature crap. Whenever something does not go his way he stops talking to me like he is a needy child or needs some type of ego boost. Once I give him that then he is back to normal. I started thinking about everything today and realized I don’t need to be treated as a convenience or readily available according to his schedule or anything else. I feel like he is a child not a man and unwilling to compromise or even communicate or understand me or anything else its hard to explain what I am feeling but I do know I should not be treated like this. I am not going to be used. Our schedules are different and we agreed that we would work with one another but it seems like I am putting in the effort and he is not. I started a new position at work the other day and he texted me and said that everyone better know that I am taken and I am his because I work with mostly men. I could not believe what I read. I do work with mostly men all day and have to admit I get more attention and better communication and everything else than what he is giving me. I would love to say that but of course I would not. I never mentioned how he forgot about me last week 2 times when we were to go out. I am sure once Saturday comes closer he will start talking to me again but I think I will ignore him. There are other fish in the sea.
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