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[quote=”April Masini”]Don’t go out of your way to see him, but do flirt with him next time you see him — and give him something to notice. Give yourself some sort of makeover so you’ve got some visual change going on that he’ll stop and look at. Guys are visual and they notice the way you look. Grab his attention with your appearance. 😉[/quote]

I used to work as a model and due to the nature of this business I’m relatively tired of continuously emphasizing my appearance. I don’t have one specific style going for me. One day I underscore my love for rock music by wearing band shirts, another day I wear something elegant, then something cute, something casual, something more sexy. So I guess he gets his variety 🙂
I’m not that type of person that chases people so I was hoping he would indicate some interest.

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[quote=”April Masini”]It sounds like he’s interested, 🙂 but the best way to know if a guy wants to date you is if he asks you out. 😉 So…. my advice is that you flirt with him, 😎 but don’t spend all your time and energy on him. Play the field — and the numbers game — and if he asks you out, then great. But if he doesn’t, you haven’t invested that much in him.

Hope that helps![/quote]

Hi April,

thank you very much for your quick answer! I agree with you and I was expecting him to at least chat with me the next time he sees me but he didn’t do it so I feel a little at a loss here. Should I give him more time (we only see each other once a week for that two hour lecture, occasionally also a day later in the library) or let it go?

Thank you.

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