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  • in reply to: Advice needed. #32807
    Outforarip
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    And on top of that why would you avoid it?

    in reply to: Advice needed. #32806
    Outforarip
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    I almost feel as though I need to go through with it. We’re still open enough with each other that we can talk about anything, and honestly at that. I’d think some answers would help me sort out my thoughts a bit more. I will strongly consider just cutting ties, since my feelings are known now. But looking at it from the perspective above How do I approach? Sorry for the million questions lol

    in reply to: Advice needed. #32799
    Outforarip
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    Thankyou for the reply, I do have some questions though. Before I go any further just know that I’m not trying to disregard your advice as it may sound like that. Because I really do appreciate the time you put in to try and help people out, nice to know theres still some good in this world. I will say that before all this started for a good long while I could have honestly said that we were “just friends” as time went on though that’s where it got messy. Honestly part of me regrets ever trying to take that friendship and turn it into something more. You’re spot on when you say that I’ve always had feelings for her I can’t deny that. “When you say I haven’t Matched my behaviour with my feelings” hoI t exactly do you mean that? During our last meetup I made it very clear what I wanted out of it, we kissed, flirted and had an awesome time I didn’t know it then but I’m almost certain now that she was with her boyfriend at the time it happened. The timing isn’t right, it’s funny you mention that because it hits home. Irrelevant point but I remember a while back in the early goings of this I asked her why we haven’t gone out yet and that was her exact reply.

    I’ll try and keep these next few questions breif. Like I said she said she “owes” me a visit, and that’s one I’d like to go through with. Its very likley going to be a heart to heart over the whole situation and I’m hoping that will help ease my mind a bit, but how would you recommend I approach that? And the next question is a hard one but you’ve helped me this far. Judging by what Ive told you and I realize you can’t read minds but I want to know if you think there’s really a chance with this girl maybe sometime down the road, that’s a hard question to answer but short of asking her that this is my best option.

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