Thanks for your response, April, I really appreciate it. And you may be right. I guess she is under so many stress for personal reasons, that it could be affecting her. However, it confuses me, because I wonder, why the change? I think that the overall experience is good. I am a very considerate person, I enjoy giving her oral sex, and foreplay consists mainly in manual stimulation on my part, because she doesn’t like kissing. On the intercourse part I try to give her options, but it’s complicated because she likes to be on top. Obviously this position kills my “enthusiasm” pretty fast because I find it very stimulating. I do have to state that this is my first time living together with anyone and I don’t have that much “relationship experience”. I have tried my best on being supportive and always being there for her, but that might have been my big mistake, making myself too available…