One more question, so him and I do talk about marriage quite often so it’s not that he doesn’t want a long commitment. He always asks me what kind of ring I want and we talk about where we want to live, and etc. could me talking about future talk be pushing him away and making him lack in these areas?
Thank you. Hearing that was actually insightful I needed to hear that. I always give him the benefit of the doubt to try and work on these things but it seems like when it does, it never sticks and within a short amount of time he’s right back to the same way. It’s unfortunate because I do love him and his other qualities but at the same time I feel like how can I be in a relationship that could last me for the rest of my life and he doesn’t fulfill basic needs like communication and affection. I keep hoping he will change but I see now that I just don’t think he will and I think he also doesn’t change because he knows I always took him back before knowing he didn’t, I always settle for less than I deserve and I can’t seem to figure out why.
