[hotblonde015]

One more question, so him and I do talk about marriage quite often so it’s not that he doesn’t want a long commitment. He always asks me what kind of ring I want and we talk about where we want to live, and etc. could me talking about future talk be pushing him away and making him lack in these areas?

[hotblonde015]

Thank you. Hearing that was actually insightful I needed to hear that. I always give him the benefit of the doubt to try and work on these things but it seems like when it does, it never sticks and within a short amount of time he’s right back to the same way. It’s unfortunate because I do love him and his other qualities but at the same time I feel like how can I be in a relationship that could last me for the rest of my life and he doesn’t fulfill basic needs like communication and affection. I keep hoping he will change but I see now that I just don’t think he will and I think he also doesn’t change because he knows I always took him back before knowing he didn’t, I always settle for less than I deserve and I can’t seem to figure out why.

[hotblonde015]

I am 22 and he is 25

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