[Dakota1D]

[quote=”April Masini”]He’s not getting you to stay. You’re choosing to stay. You have to stop blaming him for your behavior. 😉 When you’re ready to go, you’ll go. This isn’t about him. It’s about you. 🙂[/quote]

I don’t blame him for making me stay. Its my choice and I know it. I hate that he can say the things to make me though. Its best for me to cut ties and see if it works out for us or them. The things he tells me makes me think they aren’t going to work. But I know I need to give him the time and space to distance us (mainly for me) what’s the best way to get to that point and to do this?

[Dakota1D]

[quote=”April Masini”]Definitely not.

He’s offering you a back up spot in his dating roster in case he and his ex get back together because she’s the one for him. Come on. You can do better than that without even trying!! 😉 Especially since you’re a sensitive person with history of depression, it’s very important for you to make healthy choices. He’s clearly not offering you something of value. Next![/quote]

Thank you. I know I do deserve better than that. And I tell him that and try to leave him often, but he tells me to quit thinking I know the future . which he is right about, I don’t know it.. But I’ll never get 100% of him if he stays with me and still believes that the ex was the one. I hate that he can get me to stay, when I know I shouldn’t. But I know he’s not doing it to hurt me, I know that. Its obvious. Its just so hurtful and upsetting.

[Dakota1D]

I assume you don’t think this is one of those you never know if you don’t take a chance kind of thing?

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