We were living together for about 4 months due to circumstances. I am 25 and she is 28. We both were working at the same place and it was very hostile to work at and we kept getting the worst shifts/hours and hours being taken away. She had almost 9k in lawyer fees that she had to pay upfront with only about 2 months to come up with the money. I had student loans and a new car payment to pay. Even though I was struggling with money as well I always offered up anything I could give to her. She has told me there are things I need to work on and unfortunately I did wait too long to take it serious and make the changes stick. I am also seeing a therapist now, I am not sure what I need to be talking with him to get my problems fixed but I am trying. We sat down and talked, she said that she needs to get back to herself before she is ready for anything with anybody. I know it will take time and we both need to get back to ourselves which I am willing to give. I just want to continue to show her I am changing and it is sticking. I also am not sure if there is anything else I can do to go about showing her I still care, I want her and not be overwhelming with it.
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