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Hey April,

Thanks for all the advice. I’ll have to move on then. She’s online on WhatsApp but refuses to open my message. I guess she never liked me at all.

But thanks for all the help!

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Hi April,

Thanks for the advice so far. I’ve already asked her out for a date, but I didn’t get any response and she said to text instead as she left in the cab. How should I ask her again? After her exams or before and to continue the conversation about the date via text?

Thanks.

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Hey April,

My exams are over and she helped me with my performance. I helped her carry her instrument while she dials for a taxi. I asked her when her exam performance is held and she asked whether I’m planning to come. I said yes. Then she replied saying that I don’t have to come, then followed by saying that I can come, then she said I don’t have to come, then she asked if I’m staying for the whole batch’s performance. I said I’ll probably stay. She asked me why I’m still waiting with her and I asked if she’s free after her exams. She said yes. Then I asked if I can ask her out on a date but her cab arrived. She then said to talk via chat.

I just sent her a text and asked her what time and location of her performance and she replied telling me the time and venue.

What should I do next and how do I go from here?

Thanks April.

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Hi April!

I have not asked her out yet, but I’ve been getting mixed signals from her and it’s making me very confused.

I was viewing her profile messenger and I accidentally clicked on the call button. I was afraid that she would know that I was viewing her profile, so I told the group chat that I’m having problems with WhatsApp. After sometime, she changed her profile pic. Following day in morning class, me and my other friend were looking at football statistics and she playfully said she understands what the table means. I jokingly tested her and of course she doesn’t know. I said something funny in class and everyone laughed (that’s what I always do). She said that I was funny then asked about the instrument test for that day. I said I’ll be practicing in the late afternoon. When morning class ended, normally she would leave immediately, but she came to me and asked what time I’ll be practicing. It felt like we really clicked.

However, when we chat on FB messenger, her replies are short and felt cold. There was no room for me to expand the chat. And it doesn’t seem like she’s interested to talk to me. I asked if she knows any good place to eat around her area, and she said she doesn’t know. Not only are the conversations short, but she’ll just disappear, not even a Last Seen. I get it that she’s a foreigner and FB is blocked in her country, so maybe she doesn’t use it. But still, if you’re interested in someone, wouldn’t you at least want to chat?

I get this feeling that she’s not interested in me at all and I should stop, or risk a friendship.

What’s actually happening?

Thanks!

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I was thinking of asking her out after exams for a movie. Should I do that?

Thanks!

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Hi April,

I’ve done as you advised.

I asked her when she would be free for a practice session to demonstrate her instrument and she asked if Good Friday was alright. Of course I agreed. So today, we met in the morning. She dressed quite well and I can see some make-up, probably blushes because her cheeks are reddish, and I think I see some eye liners. Halfway through she seemed like she’s in a rush to get back, so I asked if she’s in a rush, she said no. Then I asked what is she going to do later, she said that she’s going to go home and sleep. After the session, I asked if she wants to grab a cup of tea, but she rejected, saying that it’s alright. I even offered to buy her one.

I guess she doesn’t like me after all right?

Thanks for the advises by the way!

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Thank you April for the advice. Are there any signs or behavior that I should be looking out for signs of interests? And if I were to ask her out, how do I do it in such a way so as not to scare her off? She is always on her phone during classes and once, when I walking past her in class, as I approach, she looked up and quickly shielded her phone screen from me. I didn’t intend to peek at her phone or anything. She looked a little scared.

Thanks!

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