This is about like trying to put a rubix cube together and out of character for me to be asking a 3rd party. So if she does initiate conversation that is meaningless should I just ignore it or explain to her that I do want to be friends but at this time i just feel like i cant because because I still have an emotional attachment to her and the girls? I though about giving her a couple months and then striking up conversation with her. I have no doubt that she wont text back. That’s just the type of woman she is. If that goes well sending her some flower for birthday which is around the same time frame and asking her to dinner sometime