Yes thats helpful advice. Yesterday we went out drinking and we had a great time once again touchy feely and while we were out she said she wanted to have sex. I said the same thing. When we were in the cab and we got to her house she said that i should call another cab service around her way to drop me home. I was under the idea that i was gonna stay with her and she said her house is messy and but next time we hang out let her know beforehand that i wanna spend the night and she will “prepare”. The cab got there to pick me up and we were just kissing over and over and couldnt get off each other. She said she wanted me to stay and i said i will tell the driver to leave but then she was being hesitant again. She kept telling me she loves me and when i got home she said she wanted to have phone sex, which we did. I guess im beginning to chip away at her defenses…but taking your advice should probably do the trick faster. What do you take from that situation?