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[quote=”April Masini”]It doesn’t sound like you took my advice…. did you ask her out on a date?[/quote]
I apologize if I didnt make that clear. I did ask her out to dinner, but as I said..our schedules are really conflicting right now im not sure if we can find a night we both can do it until may. And she did say yes, but also said she wasnt sure when because of how our current schedule situation is.

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Our schedules are really crappy for a bit, until the beginning of May. She works late M, W, F, Sat, and I work late the Tu, Thur, Sat. We both work sundays but get out around 5, that may be a possibility. The schedule makes it really difficult to have a dinner date. Then that isn’t taking into account any other responsibilities she may have with her child.

Nonetheless, I did tell her I wanted to take her out to dinner, but that I know our work schedules were pretty difficult to work around, and that her childs schedule was something else to consider. So while we don’t have a set date in stone, at least she knows I’d like to take her out.

I could bring by some food at the end of her work shift one of the days she closes.

I’m just baffled by how flirty and touchy everything was going and suddenly when I acted upon it, and in the moment she was receptive and in texts later that day she didn’t seem to mind….yet her behavior changed. Perhaps she realized things were moving way too quick and wanted to pump the brakes? Is this a topic I should even bother trying to get to the bottom of or just brush it off?

I think I’m going to wait a week or so and just see what happens, perhaps downplay things and take it easy but i’m a bit all over the place. I guess due to scheduling issues if a dinner date has to postponed for a month…should I be changing my flirty behavior with her at work? We still talk and goof around like normal, she’s just not doing the heavy flirting like she once was. Is it worth mentioning her change in behavior or is that a big nono? She is still asking me for massages when no one is around though, should I even bother with that still?

Thank you so much

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