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    Just want to update you..Met with him last night for dinner. We discussed a lot of things that had been pending between us. Sex, attire, dependability and at the end he asked me what was it, that I would like to come out of this? I said a healthy and happy relationship and later being his wife and him my husband and father to my boys. Because it was late in the night already I didn’t want him to think I wanted to stay over so I told him we would continue our conversation tomorrow night. He agreed. And he told me he wanted me to come back with some suggestions on how we could move on with our relationship. I told him I thought that would be best if I left that up to him since I’m the one that came with a bigger package. He said to let him worry about that after I tell him how I would like to move forward with us. He has always said that after 2 years we had to move on from boyfriend or girlfriend so I am guessing he would like me to talk about marriage. He told me there is different types of commitments-committed relations where we stay in different homes, fuck relations, or marriage relations. I know this is the man for me and my boys. I adore him with all my heart, I just don’t know how to propose anything to him on my end other than I’m ready for the next step. What can I say to suggest more? Or what kind of plan or timeframe can we talk about? I have a feeling he wants times and dates of when I want to move on with this. We have summer vacation time coming and we usually spend 6 weeks at The Keys, Florida. He plans everything’s so I’m sure he’s asking to know how to plan. A few months ago he asked what kind of wedding I would like. I told him I’d like to runaway for the weekend and get married in Vegas. Knowing this April, what suggestions can I bring to the table for him that doesn’t seem like desperation or overwhelming for him?

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    This is excellent advice. One more question-he is a possessive man and he dislikes when i wear revealing clothing. Ive made an extreme lifestyle change for him these past years in many different ways but the other day I wore a semi sheer silk shirt under a vest and he said I was dressing inappropriate which arose to another argument in the same week as our bedroom fallout. I used to be a fragrance vendor on weekends in which my attire was flirty and fun-he claims i probably miss that life and attire since i seem to be “falling off the wagon”. But in all truthfulness I really don’t miss it. I just didn’t think it would spark an argument. I’ve made many positive changes for us and I wish he would appreciate it just a little. How can I express this to him without opening another can of worms? He asked to meet with me in 2 days and I’m at loss for words. I cant seem to think of anything that would confirm my commitment to him. What do you think?

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