[jd32469]

I know sometimes in life you have to be the better person and suck it up, but there is so much history which has made my decision not to continue my relationship with them. I tried that many times already. My mother couldn’t even admit to me that she and John sat next to them during one of my son’s football games. I actually took pics and video of them that day, I told her that and she still could not be real with me. In a sick kinda way it was hysterical to me. EVERYTHING I am today is from the negative effect’s they had on me esp John (dad). I worked my ass off 70 hours per week to save money to have a down payment for aVEN house for my family. I got to where I wanted to be in life and she, who put ZERO DOLLARS AND ZERO CENTS INTO THE MARRIAGE WAS ALLOWED TO TAKE HALF OF THE NOTHING SHE PUT IN WHICH TURNED OUT TO BE OVER $81,000.00, PLUS $3,000 GRAND PER MONTH AS WELL AS SHE GETS MY PENSION REGARDLESS OF ANYTHING, WILL BE GETTING $8500 PER MONTH UNTIL THE DAY SHE DIES AND SHE CANT EVEN BE NICE TO ME!!! THATS WHY IT HURTS EVEN MORE THAT THEY TOOK HER SIDE

[jd32469]

There is a lot more to the story than I wrote due to a word quota. I was actually the one that found a woman to replace her before she found another man to replace me. Thru my oldest sister my parents were told that whenever she asked them to watch the kids she was for fact on a date with her bf who she swore on a stack of bibles was not the truth, so she lied plus when she found out about my gf she w/o any conversation with me told the kids “daddy moved on too quickly he has a gf already”. That created a lot of issues with my kids esp since she was lying to all about her bf. I a a retired police officer so I have evidence, pics texts because she was going to fight me for custody. We agreed to not give the house away but we had turned down a $516,000 OFFER but she wanted to accept a lesser offer by 10 grand so she could ove on faster with her bf. That along with so many other stories I can tell you but IMO a parent esp a mother should never turn her back on her only son. Let me remind you there were NO extreme circumstances from either one of our ends to end the marriage

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