[quote=”April Masini”]You wrote that you’re confused, and I’m suggesting that you ask her out to clarify the situation. If she says yes, you know she’s interested. If she says no, you’ll know she’s not. That will take care of the confusion you were concerned about.
As for your feeling scared, I understand that — but the reality is that if you don’t face your fears, you’re going to have much bigger problem: regret. To ask and get shot down is a lot better than never asking because you’re scared and always regretting the decision.
Heartbroken, well that happens in life when you don’t get what you want. Welcome to the human race! 😉 It’s okay to feel sad that you didn’t get what you want, but just try to live with clarity and confidence as your goals. You’ll be able to navigate social situations much more easily with those skills. 😀[/quote]
i feel like if I ask her out it would be too assertive, do you think just continuealy making conversation with her for awhile before I ask her out would be a better plan?
