[blueskys83]

Thank you April for your great advice. I really appreciate it and have written down in my own words what I need to say. I must admit though just bluntly saying all this feels a little forced to me but I agree it needs to be said (again) regardless. Timing and execution are everything. I get hung up on that and then before I know it another day has gone by…. But you’re right it should have happened yesterday.

[blueskys83]

Thank you for your response. I agree I can’t say I want commitment and then just move there without it. He recently came to visit and we had a really good talk about it and almost went down and got married that night. However, it being mothers day we were at my parents and it just didn’t end up happening. After talking about it and putting everything out on the table he continues to bring up us moving and is trying to plan it but hasn’t mentioned anything really about the marriage part. He said he was ready and wanted that too but saying and doing are 2 different things. Is there a way to bring it up without it sounding like an ultimatum? Or a demand?

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