[fatjoez]

Thanks April, could you tell me from a womans perspective

* Is there anything worth telling her aside from supporting her decision to date others?
She doesn’t seem to want to hear anything about the potential for us to make it work.
Is “playing it cool” the best approach here?

* Despite saying she wants to date others, she asked me a few blunt questions and I’m wondering what her motive is?
“What is your passion in life”
“Why do you even want to be with me”

Is this her trying to clarify her confusion or look for a logical reason to give up on us?

[fatjoez]

Thanks! Answers below, hope you can give more wisdom.

Our fights/breakups were because we kept arguing over small, silly things. Immaturity
Her personality has been very sensitive, complaining & negative & mine became very distant/emotionally off.

[b]Year 2[/b] Long distance. She got depressed left & hooked up with a guy. Apologized & we got back together

[b]Year 3[/b] Moved back. She left 2 months in “were ok but I’m too young for a serious relationship”
Hooked up same guy again & another. 1 month later we back together
The hurt & her personality made me switch off
I kissed a girl she begged me to stay, I did but fights continued
End of year verbally flirted with her friend, she got over it

Year 4,5,6: She was trying 100%, I wasn’t

Year 6 start year I kissed a girl (drunk mistake didn’t tell her)
Mid year split, she went on date & kissed a guy. Got back together.

Year 7 January split over fights + I didn’t want kids (dealbreaker)

Did months reflection, realized my mistakes & changed on children
Met her, explained everything, declared love & told her about kissing girl 1 year ago.
Spent day together was okay but she asked for space.

3/4 phone calls/chat conversations & some romantic gestures like flowers since then.
All has been positive & she says she feels huge change in me but…

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