[Anonymous]

There is always advice about what not to do, but what about advice on how to repair somthing if you’ve already done it?

[Anonymous]

How can you go away to China for your senior year? I would be so nervous. Are you nervous about having to make new friends during your stay abroad?

[Anonymous]

please, someone help me 🙁

[Anonymous]

i love this girl that liked me at first. we had a date had a great time kissed alot. a couple of days later another guy ends up on the scene. it turned into some sort of competition between us and none of us won in the end!. i confronted her and asked why cant we be together? and she said ” i do like you , im just afraid that if we try and dont work out im going to lose you”. i didnt know how to take this and i stuck around. a month has now passed and she said recently that im her close friend . ive tried to be her friend but the old feelings are still the same and its not for happening . what i dont understand is that she phones me everysingle morning waking me up and wants to spend all her time with me, and now i feel that im pushing her away to protect myself and hopefully move on . truth is i dont want to she is amazing!. am i a complete idiot for ending up in this situation do i still have a chance with her?? please be brutally honest!!.

[Anonymous]

Women are emotional & there priorities towards life is different they do love sex but on the other hand they want all the love & care from the person . I would like to suggest you that don’t force her for sex care for her a lot & understand her & then she will come again will come to you.

[Anonymous]

Wow… I knew it, but i didn’t want to accept it. I wanted to believe that he really does care about me, that he’s really into me. But i realize that i was fighting with myself, trying to make myself believe that that was the case.

I just want to be with him so badly. I can’t even wrap my head around the idea of ending our relationship. That’s why I keep trying, or chasing as you say. The thing is that he cries to me….when i tell him what hes done wrong. He starts crying about how he’s afraid he’s going to lose me. That he can’t understand why he does what he does. He says its hard…. I really don’t know what to think.

But i did tell him that before. When he first told me about the “three day sentence”, i was hurt. I couldnt believe that he would let his cousin make a rule like that….and he didn’t even stick up for me.

Another thing is that it’s almost like he does things based on his cousins schedule. if his cousin isn’t doing anything thats when he spends time with me. When cousin has to run errands or something else insignificant he has to go with him. But that just goes back to the idea that hes-just-not-interested. 🙁

I guess i just have to do whats best for me right? I deserve better. I shouldnt have to fight with him to show interest.

ah…it’s so much easier said than done. I don’t want anyone else but him. 🙁

[Anonymous]

awesome reply, thank you soo much.

[Anonymous]

hi. obviously, he isn’t ready for a commitment. why commit yourself to something if he will not reciprocate? i understand your feelings of mental anguish in missing him. i know it’s not an easy thing to get through. find solace in close friends. pick up a hobby that you love to do and that you are good at doing. refrain from all contact with him, dispose of anything and everything that reminds you of him. i know it may be painful, but it’s the only way to get over it.

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