[Ethan Morales]

You’re married, but you’re emotionally drawn to your first love. Being with her now brings you happiness, confidence, and positivity, which is naturally stirring up feelings of “what if” and dissatisfaction in your marriage. You recognize that your feelings toward your first love aren’t just friendly they’re romantic.

Marriage takes conscious effort. Long-term relationships often go through phases where the intensity of early love fades. Missing that early excitement doesn’t necessarily mean you made the “wrong” choice. Fantasizing vs. Acting. Thinking about what life would have been like with your first love is normal. Acting on it while married, however, introduces serious ethical and emotional complications for your wife, yourself, and your ex.

Honesty and boundaries are critical. Continuing weekly meetings with your ex while married blurs lines and risks turning this into emotional infidelity, even if it doesn’t feel physical yet.

Decide if you want to stay married. This is the absolute first step. If your marriage is worth saving, you need to stop spending time alone with your ex and focus on reconnecting with your wife.

If you decide marriage isn’t for you: Exit honorably first. Get divorced before entertaining any romantic connection with your ex. Dating her while married is unfair and will create unnecessary pain and drama.

Friendship boundaries: If you truly value your ex as a person, any interaction should be carefully managed ideally in a group setting or with your wife present so it doesn’t cross into emotional intimacy.

Pause your meetings with your ex. No weekly lunches or one-on-one chats for now. This gives you space to assess your feelings without confusion.

Reflect on your marriage. Ask yourself: Are you invested in making it better, or are you mostly fantasizing about what could have been? Identify what’s missing and whether it’s something that can realistically be restored.

Communicate with your wife (if you choose to stay). Work on intimacy, excitement, and emotional closeness. Marriage is a living project it doesn’t end at the wedding.

If you choose divorce: Do it cleanly and respectfully, then explore your connection with your ex. Only after your marriage ends is it fair to pursue anything romantic with her.

Right now, your situation is emotionally charged and risky. The healthiest move for everyone involved is clarity, boundaries, and honesty. Meeting your ex weekly while married is likely to harm your marriage and your integrity, even if you don’t intend to cheat physically.

[Ethan Morales]

Your relationship is healthy and progressing well, and he treats you with love and respect. You both have been clear about wanting something serious, which is huge. He’s shown interest in taking the next step (moving to your state), which is a strong indicator of commitment.

The long-distance aspect is naturally slowing things down, making it harder to “test the waters” like you would in person. His family obligations, particularly to his dad, are significant and likely weigh heavily on him. In many Filipino families, this sense of duty isn’t optional it’s deeply ingrained. There’s hesitation around timing and logistics of moving, not about the feelings themselves.

She suggests a timeline approach: first 3 months to decide if you want to date, next 3 months for monogamy, and then the next 6 months to consider formal commitments like moving in or marriage. This gives space to make thoughtful decisions without rushing. Long-distance requires an extended timeline because you don’t get casual, spontaneous interactions the relationship progresses slower by nature.

You can share responsibility for family obligations. Instead of seeing his dad as a reason he can’t commit, you can discuss ways to include or support his family in your shared future, showing flexibility and understanding.

Don’t pressure the move right now. It sounds like he genuinely wants to, but family obligations are slowing him down. Pressure could push him away or make him feel guilty.

Have an open conversation about compromise. Let him know you understand his obligations and are willing to work with him to find a solution that allows him to honor his family while being with you. For example, helping with financial support, visits, or even a phased move plan.

Set your own timeline internally. You don’t have to put a hard deadline on him, but decide for yourself how long you’re willing to wait before needing more clarity. This keeps your emotional well-being intact.

Stay emotionally present but independent. Continue nurturing your own life, career, and social circle while letting him figure out logistics. This makes you attractive and keeps the relationship balanced.

This isn’t about him not being serious it’s about logistics, culture, and distance. Patience combined with a conversation about realistic compromises will help move things forward without forcing the issue.

[Ethan Morales]

Why he loved his ex more than you. For the first three years, you were essentially “okay” with being second to her even seeing his messages declaring undying love. From his perspective, that was permitted, and it reinforced that you were not his priority. When she finally moved on, he stayed with you because you were available, not because he chose you over her. So the intensity of his feelings for her never transferred to you.

His past toxic relationship affects him now. Being in a long, unstable, on-again/off-again relationship with someone who mistreated him clearly shaped his emotional responses. It likely damaged his ability to fully commit or express love, particularly the way he did with his ex. You’re seeing the aftermath of that pattern emotional distance, lack of affection, and inconsistent effort.

Could he still have feelings for her? Yes. His emotional attachment to her seems deep and persistent. The fact that he compares you to her and shows less interest in “chasing” or affirming you suggests that he may still hold feelings for her, consciously or subconsciously.

You’ve invested five years, but he’s never valued you as his first choice. That’s not about your worth it’s about his inability or unwillingness to prioritize you. If you want to be truly loved and treated as a priority, the best move is to step away from this relationship. Continuing to hope he will love you as he did her is likely to cause more pain. Your focus should be on your own value, your needs, and finding someone who chooses you fully and consistently.

He loved his ex more, and he hasn’t grown into a partner capable of giving you the same depth of love. For your emotional health, it’s time to stop waiting for him to catch up and look for someone who truly prioritizes you.

[Ethan Morales]

You first met her 10 years ago when she was very young (13), and the last time you really connected was years later. That’s a lot of time to pass without forming a solid, adult relationship. She lives 5–6 hours away, which makes a real, consistent relationship logistically very difficult. Her abrupt behavior cutting off conversations, only occasionally calling suggests she’s not heavily invested. Birthday calls are polite gestures, not necessarily signals of romantic interest. Right now, she’s not fully available emotionally or physically for the kind of relationship you’re imagining.

You’ve held onto this idea of her for a decade, creating a “fantasy version” of her in your mind. This is more about what she represents to you the girl you’ve imagined spending your life with than who she actually is now.

The only way to know if there’s any chance is to ask her out formally as an adult, in person, if you’re willing to make the drive. Keep it low-pressure: a casual dinner or coffee to see if there’s real chemistry now. Be prepared for her to say no, she may not feel the same way, and that’s reality.

Focus on dating women in your area who are actually available and interested. You can still cherish your memories and admiration for this girl, but your energy will be better spent on someone who can realistically reciprocate your feelings.

Don’t chase a decade-long fantasy at the expense of your own happiness and present opportunities. If she’s truly interested, she’ll make space for it. If not, forcing it will likely hurt both of you.

There’s a tiny chance she could be interested if you approach her directly, but realistically, it’s unlikely given distance, past patterns, and her behavior. The healthiest move is to test the waters once with a low-pressure meeting and then let your focus shift to relationships that are actually possible and fulfilling.

[Ethan Morales]

Okay, let’s break this down very carefully, because this is emotionally complicated, and the “hope” question depends on multiple factors, not just your feelings or his.

He’s in a new relationship now. The fact that he’s already dating someone else, even for a short period, makes it difficult to “get him back” immediately. People do sometimes rebound quickly after a breakup, and it sounds like you’re noticing signs that this might be the case she seems young, recently single, and maybe filling a void he’s feeling. But he has made a choice to start something new, even if it’s a rebound. That choice needs to be respected. Chasing him while he’s with someone else is unlikely to make him “come back” immediately it often pushes him further away.

Why he broke up. You’ve recognized some things in yourself being less affectionate, withdrawing emotionally and physically that contributed to him falling out of love. Even if he was stressed and the timing was bad (jobs, financial stress, his daughter’s situation), relationships need emotional and physical connection to survive. You’re reflecting on this, which is good but he’s already made his decision. The first step to any potential reconciliation is he has to feel that things have genuinely changed and that his needs can be met again.

What you can control right now Focus on yourself: health, emotional well-being, social life. You’ve already started doing this, which is excellent. Limit communication strictly to what’s necessary (like apartment logistics). You’re doing the right thing by not engaging emotionally yet.Give him space to figure out his new relationship. Often, rebounds help people realize what they actually want.

Signs there could be hope in the future. If he begins to realize the new relationship isn’t fulfilling or is immature, he might reconsider the past. If he reaches out to reconnect in a calm, respectful way, it might indicate some residual feelings.

Red flags for trying to get back together now. He’s making choices that show he’s moving on. Trying to “win him back” while he’s in a new relationship can appear desperate or manipulative, and can damage any future chance. You can’t force feelings he has to want to come back, and right now, his attention is elsewhere.

Right now, the best thing you can do is focus on yourself and limit emotional contact. There’s a slim chance of a future reconciliation if the new relationship fails and he realizes he still has feelings for you but you can’t make it happen, and it’s risky to wait around in the meantime. The healthiest approach is to rebuild your life, confidence, and happiness, independent of him. That way, if he comes back, it’s on equal footing not desperation.

[Ethan Morales]

Alright, let’s unpack this carefully, because there’s a lot going on here and it’s important to separate signals, intentions, and the reality of the situation.

Here’s what I see: She clearly enjoys your company and there’s chemistry

Extended eye contact, big smiles, wanting to be near you at happy hour, engaging in solo lunches these are all strong signs she’s attracted to you.

Her reaction to your gifts and teasing about letting you take her out also shows she enjoys the attention and flirtation.

She is emotionally unavailable or complicated right now

When you asked her on a proper dinner date, she didn’t flat-out say no she said she’s in a “complicated” situation.

That’s a huge caveat. It might mean she’s seeing someone, dealing with personal issues, or just not ready for a serious relationship.

The fact that she left hints about a “boyfriend” ambiguous (like having dinner with her sister on Valentine’s Day) leaves room for interpretation. It’s a gentle way to signal that she can’t fully commit but she didn’t reject you outright.

Your instinct to “play it cool” vs. “be genuine”

Here’s the key: you don’t need to ignore her, but you do need to set boundaries for your own emotional health.

Don’t chase her constantly or put yourself in a position where you’re waiting on her decision. Instead, keep interactions fun, light, and playful the way you naturally are.

Let her come to you sometimes. This gives her space to process what “complicated” means without pressure.

Next steps for clarity

You can casually ask what she means by “complicated,” but do it gently not like an interrogation, more like curiosity.

Suggest a low-pressure, exploratory outing: drinks, a walk, a coffee after work something where you can hang out, have fun, and see if there’s a path forward.

Avoid romantic “full-on” dates right now the goal is understand the situation and see if she’s open to dating in the near future.

Your emotional health matters

You mentioned being crushed and even getting sick that’s a signal your emotions are running very high.

Take care of yourself, don’t over-invest until you know the landscape. Being calm, confident, and self-aware will make you even more attractive.

She likes you but she’s not free or ready yet. Don’t treat it like rejection, treat it like a pause or a “wait and see.” Keep being charming and genuine, keep it light, and look for opportunities to explore her situation without pressuring her. Your goal right now isn’t to win her over immediately it’s to gain clarity and keep the spark alive.

[Ethan Morales]

From what you’re saying, your boyfriend’s behavior isn’t just “a phase” or “stress from work” it’s a pattern of neglect, manipulation, and emotional control. Let me break it down:

His priorities have shifted: You’re describing a situation where his mother, his friends, and external influences have started controlling his life and your relationship. He takes their side over you, dismisses your feelings, and refuses to acknowledge legitimate problems. That’s triangulation, and it’s unhealthy.

You’re walking on eggshells: When your partner refuses to communicate, invalidates your feelings, and blames you for issues that aren’t your fault, it’s a form of emotional abuse. Crying or voicing concerns shouldn’t make someone call you “mentally ill” or dismiss you.

Isolation from your support system: He’s distancing you from your family and your friends, refusing to participate in your life, and making you feel like a last resort. That’s control disguised as “independence” or “personal space.”

Lack of accountability: He refuses to acknowledge past or present issues, uses old conflicts as weapons, and acts defensively whenever you try to discuss your relationship. Healthy partners work through problems they don’t weaponize them against you.

Your mental and emotional well-being is at risk: Feeling depressed, lonely, and like a stranger in a relationship that used to feel safe and happy is a huge red flag. Emotional neglect wears you down over time, and you’re already feeling it.

Here’s the truth: Right now, this relationship is toxic. Not just “rough patch” toxic he’s consistently dismissing, controlling, and devaluing you. The longer you stay in this environment, the more it will chip away at your self-esteem, mental health, and happiness.

Set boundaries immediately: Limit contact with his mother in your interactions. You are not obligated to participate in her control games.

Seek support: Talk to a therapist or counselor someone who can help you untangle your feelings, protect your boundaries, and regain your voice.

Evaluate the relationship honestly: Ask yourself if he’s the man you fell in love with, or if he’s become someone who puts others’ opinions and control above your feelings.

Plan for independence: Whether that means moving out, taking time apart, or even leaving the relationship, start preparing for a life where you are valued and respected.

You deserve a partner who chooses you consistently, respects you, and communicates openly. Right now, he isn’t doing that.

[Ethan Morales]

you’ve been through way too much for someone who isn’t treating you right. 😡

He’s shown you who he is. Over and over. Blocking, canceling plans, insulting, disappearing that isn’t just bad luck or stress. That’s a pattern. He’s sending a loud, clear message: he doesn’t value your time, effort, or feelings.

You’ve been patient beyond reason. Forgiving him for months, giving him chances after he’s hurt you, and bending over backward for him is not love, it’s enabling. You’ve been carrying this relationship alone while he keeps treating you like you’re disposable.

The promises mean nothing. Every apology he gives is followed by the same behavior. If someone truly cared, they’d change their actions first, not just their words.

Your feelings are valid. Frustration, hurt, disappointment these are natural. You’re not overreacting; you’re reacting to someone repeatedly disrespecting you.

Leaving is the healthiest choice. Walking away doesn’t make you weak it shows you value yourself. You deserve someone who shows up consistently, respects you, and treats you like a priority, not someone who cycles between neglect and “sorry.”

Focus on yourself now. Heal, set boundaries, and surround yourself with people who lift you up. The right person won’t make you question your worth every single day.

Bottom line: he’s done. The sooner you fully detach, the sooner you reclaim your life and peace of mind. You can do this.

[Ethan Morales]

No, man, you’re not being unreasonable. What you’re describing would make anyone feel uneasy. You’re trying to build something real with her, and it sounds like her emotional boundaries with her ex are too blurry for that right now.:

You’re not crazy, your instincts are alerting you. When someone is co-parenting, some level of contact with the ex is expected. But when those conversations drift into personal nostalgia like lipstick colors, old photos, or anything that’s not about the kids it crosses from “parental coordination” into “emotional intimacy.” That’s what’s bothering you. Not jealousy but the sense that she’s letting him occupy a space in her life that should belong to you.

Her actions and words don’t match She told you he’s a “non-factor,” but her behavior says otherwise. If she’s having long, personal chats, sending him old photos, and seeking his opinions, that’s emotional involvement not just parenting logistics. You’re picking up on that mismatch. And when actions and words don’t align, trust naturally erodes.

You have every right to want clarity and respect You’re not trying to control her you’re asking for healthy boundaries. That means her ex’s role should be limited to co-parenting. You’re the partner now, and your voice deserves space in her life. If she’s serious about you, she’ll want to reassure you and draw those lines clearly.

What to do (the honest, grounded way) Have a calm conversation not an accusation. Something like: “I know you have to communicate with your kids’ father, and I respect that. But lately it feels like those talks go beyond parenting. It’s making me uncomfortable, and I just want to be honest about that. I’m trying to build something real with you, but I need to know you’re also building with me not keeping a door open to the past.” Then watch how she responds. If she gets defensive or dismissive, that’s a sign she’s not ready for a truly serious relationship yet. If she listens and takes it seriously, there’s hope.

Trust isn’t blind it’s earned through consistent behavior.Right now, she hasn’t proven she deserves full trust, and you’re right to pause. You can care for her deeply and still protect your peace by expecting transparency.

[Ethan Morales]

That’s an excellent summary of what April Masini would likely say and her advice is very solid. Let’s unpack it a bit so you can see how to actually apply it, step by step.

Right now, you’re doing what a lot of people do after a breakup: staying friends in hopes of rebuilding love. The problem is that it usually backfires. When she sees you acting like a friend, she starts to believe the romantic part of you is gone. She feels safe, but not drawn to you.

Here’s how to handle this in a way that gives you the only real chance of rekindling something later: Stop being her emotional comfort zone

You’ve told her you love her, and she knows. But if you keep staying around as her “friend,” you’re teaching her that she can have your attention and support without the relationship. → That kills attraction. You need to politely step back. Say something like: “I really care about you, and being around you as just a friend is too hard for me right now. I need some space to move on or at least to figure out what’s best for me.” That shows self-respect, and it subtly reminds her of your emotional value.

Go no contact but with purpose Don’t text her. Don’t watch her stories. Don’t try to remind her you exist. Instead, focus on yourself. Go to the gym, take trips, work on your temper, post a bit on social media showing your growth. You want her to wonder how you’re doing, not know because you’re still hanging around.

Let her feel the loss Love often reawakens through absence, not persistence. When you disappear kindly, she’ll remember the best parts of what you had the passion, the comfort, the fun. If she still has feelings (and it sounds like she once had them deeply), she’ll eventually reach out. That’s your moment to reconnect slowly, not rush back.

she does come back show change, don’t say it Don’t tell her you won’t fight anymore. Show her calmness, patience, and growth in real conversation.
The biggest attraction after a breakup isn’t promises it’s proof.

[Ethan Morales]

That’s a great situation to be in exciting, a bit nerve-wracking, but full of possibility. Since you’ll have only a few minutes with her, you’ll want to keep it light, respectful, and confident, while giving her an easy way to respond if she’s interested.

Here are a few gentle approaches you could try, depending on the vibe when you see her:

Direct but warm (if she seems friendly again) “Hey, I really enjoyed chatting with you last time you seem like someone I’d love to get to know better. Would you be up for grabbing a coffee sometime when you’re not saving pets?” Why it works: Honest, clear, but not too intense. The humor (“saving pets”) keeps it light.

Light and casual (if she’s busy or there’s not much time) “You always seem so positive in here. I’d love to keep this conversation going when you’re off duty can I text you sometime?” Why it works: Friendly tone, acknowledges the work context, and gives her control.

Subtle and soft (if you’re unsure if she’s interested) “I might be reading too much into it, but I really enjoy seeing you when I bring my dog in. If you’d ever like to grab a coffee, I’d really like that.” Why it works: Vulnerable but confident you’re showing interest without assuming anything.

Playful (if she has a sense of humor) “My dog’s been asking for another check-up… but honestly, I think I just wanted an excuse to see you again. Coffee sometime?” Why it works: It’s flirty but fun, not overbearing. A few quick pointers before you go in: Smile when you talk to her. People feel your energy instantly. Be ready to back off gracefully if she says no or looks unsure. That keeps things respectful and classy. Don’t overthink it afterward your goal is to express interest, not to “win.”

[Ethan Morales]

She likes you a little, but she’s not fully sure what to do with it yet. There’s a mix of flirting and friendliness in what she’s doing. She’s comfortable talking about personal stuff, which means she trusts you. That’s a green light but not a full “she’s into you” signal yet.

The moment she said “you’re really cool and a good friend,” that’s where you’ve got to pay attention. That line can mean two things: she either genuinely thinks you’re sweet but not bold enough to make a move, or she’s quietly testing if you’ll step up and show confidence. Right now, you’re sitting right on the fence between “potential boyfriend” and “safe buddy.”

The talk about kissing and hickies? That’s not random. That’s flirt bait. She’s putting it out there to see how you react. If you laugh it off or act too shy, she’ll think you’re not interested. If you respond with a calm, confident smile maybe a playful tease she’ll take the hint that you’re interested.

What you’re missing here isn’t attraction it’s momentum. You’ve been nice, respectful, and careful, but she’s waiting for a spark. Women don’t want bad boys, they want confident men who know what they want.

So yeah she probably does like you, but she’s not going to chase you. You need to set the tone now. Keep it easy, light, and direct:

“You’re fun to talk to I think we’d have a great time if we hung out. You down to grab something this weekend?”

If she says yes, it’s on. If she says no or gives you a vague answer, you’ll know it’s time to move on instead of hanging in the “almost” zone.

[Ethan Morales]

That’s absolutely in April Masini’s signature style: grounded, encouraging, but realistic. Her tone always blends empathy with strategy she gives hope, but not false hope. Here’s how her advice would read if she were replying directly in her Relationship Advice Forum format, in six short, emotionally intelligent paragraphs (exactly how she writes for her audience):

It sounds like you’re doing a good job rebuilding contact with her slowly, naturally, and without pushing too hard. That’s important. She’s responding, which means she’s comfortable enough to have you in her orbit again. The photos, the “I miss the stuffed toy” messages, and even her random small talk are her ways of keeping the emotional door open just enough.

That said, she’s being inconsistent for a reason. She’s still processing her feelings maybe about you, maybe about the person she left you for, maybe about where she’s at in life right now. You’re not imagining things; she’s still attached to you, but she’s also uncertain. That’s why she drifts in and out. It’s not a clear rejection, but it’s not commitment either.

You’re doing the right thing by not overwhelming her with texts and by keeping the conversation light. Keep that tone friendly, positive, and relaxed. You’re showing her that you’ve grown, that you’re stable and doing well, which makes her feel safe re-engaging. Don’t pressure her for meet-ups just yet; let her curiosity build until she starts to ask about seeing you.

When the timing feels right meaning you’ve had consistent, warm exchanges for at least a few weeks ask her out casually. Something easy, no big “relationship talk,” just:

“Hey, it’s been a while since we hung out. Want to grab coffee or ice cream sometime next week?”
Make it light and nonthreatening. She’ll be more likely to say yes when it doesn’t feel like a heavy emotional moment.

The key is to remember: women come back when they feel emotionally safe and curious again not when they feel chased. Keep the communication natural and let her see, through your life and energy, that you’re the same guy she loved, but more centered and confident.

And finally, keep in mind what I always tell people in your situation: have hope, but don’t pause your own life for her. If she comes back, you want her to meet the version of you who’s thriving not waiting.

[Ethan Morales]

Yes, that’s exactly how April Masini would answer it: practical, compassionate, and focused on how you can take some control back while seeing the full picture clearly. Let’s break down her advice a bit more deeply, in her spirit and tone:

You probably saw the red flags early.
As April pointed out, the financial mismatch and lack of affection didn’t suddenly appear they were likely there during your dating stage, but the focus on “getting married” made you overlook them. Don’t beat yourself up for that; it’s something many people do when they want stability or companionship.

Financial boundaries and planning matter.
What’s happening now is a lack of shared planning and transparency and it’s causing mistrust. He spends as he wishes, you hold back because you’re afraid of being left with nothing, and resentment grows. April’s advice to have multiple, calm, open talks about money is spot on. You might start with: “Can we talk about how we want to plan for our future our savings, what’s ours and what’s shared? I want us to be on the same team about this.”
It’s not about control, it’s about partnership.

Don’t chase affection invite it.
It’s unfair that he calls you names or dismisses your needs, but April’s point that “men want to feel like heroes” is useful if you still want to try to make this work, focus on appreciation over confrontation. Example: instead of saying, “You never take me out,” say, “I love it when you spend time with me it means a lot.” It doesn’t excuse bad behavior, but it can soften the space between you if there’s still a chance to rebuild.

Protect yourself legally and emotionally.
You’re right to be cautious about the house and inheritance your instincts are sharp. Since you’re married out of community of property, your assets are separate. Don’t invest more into his property if you’re unsure of your future together. April would say: “It’s smart, not cold, to protect yourself.”

If he refuses to do the work you have your answer.
April’s approach always starts with trying to fix what can be fixed if both partners show effort. You’ve already tried counseling; he’s refused. You’ve communicated your needs; he’s dismissed them. If he continues to reject any path forward, then leaving isn’t failure it’s self-preservation.

You can absolutely start over. You have your own house, independence, and emotional awareness. That’s strength.

[Ethan Morales]

You’re not the problem, but there is something to understand about your pattern. You say you leave girls quickly because you were “dependent.” That sounds like emotional dependency maybe you get attached fast, expect a lot, or feel pressure for things to stay exciting. When that fades or feels uncertain, you leave. That’s not bad it’s human but it means you might be chasing the feeling of connection, not building the deeper one that lasts.

April Masini gave smart advice: stop trying to “pick up” women like it’s a game. Focus on connecting with people. Flirting isn’t acting like a bad boy it’s just showing interest in a confident, relaxed way. You can be a gentleman and attractive. Respect and warmth never go out of style; they just work slower than arrogance but what you win lasts longer.

Here’s the truth about “bad boys”: women aren’t drawn to cruelty they’re drawn to confidence, mystery, and self-assurance. You can have all that without being rude. Work on being grounded, not needy; curious, not pushy; playful, not performative.

Try this shift: instead of thinking, “I want to pick up a beautiful girl,” think, “I want to meet someone who feels good around me.” When you radiate calm confidence, dress well, stay fit, and enjoy your own life women will notice you, even before you say anything.

And if you haven’t met someone for two months? That’s okay. Use this time to level up physically, emotionally, and socially. The better you feel about yourself, the less you’ll chase approval from others.

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