Yeah, no. This would totally mess with my head too.
Like, how can he say he’s fully committed but still update his profile *last week*? That’s not forgetting. That’s not boredom. That’s making a choice. You don’t go in and pick new pictures by accident.
And I get it. It feels real when you’re with him. That’s the part that keeps you stuck. He’s doing just enough to make you stay, but not enough to make you feel safe.
You’re not being extra. Wanting someone to delete the app when they’re with you is not some huge ask. It’s basic respect.
I don’t know what Jake’s doing, but I do know this— if he really meant all those sweet things, the app would already be gone.
