[Aida Omar]

It feels to you like you’ve already spent $115,000, so now you can’t back out. That’s wrong. What’s gone is gone; don’t waste another $2 million.
You are failing to commit suicide, which is proof that this is not love; it is poison.
Leave her, or she will ruin you. I hope you will find someone better who will respect you and not consider you an ATM.

[Aida Omar]

When she removes you from Snapchat, she’s not being hostile, but rather self-reserved. She feels guilty. So, seeing that you were good and she couldn’t give you what you wanted, consider it a final goodbye and hold back.
Don’t wait for her to answer, whether she will ever come back or tell you why she did it; her silence is the final answer.
And AskApril is right that you should accept the reality and find someone who is ready to accept your love.

[Aida Omar]

I think when someone turns on “location” on chatting apps and talks to strangers and asks them to meet up, they are not just bored but are looking for “options.” She has emotionally moved out of the relationship.
Self-respect is paramount. A relationship where you have to spy and lie repeatedly takes away your peace of mind.
Have a final serious talk with her about how these things are “red lines” for you. If she doesn’t change back off.
Accept that the relationship is over and you’re just wasting each other’s time.

[Aida Omar]

Friends, you are a “free emotional support” for this girl right now. You are doing all the things that her boyfriend should do. But the “boyfriend” tag and comfort belong to someone else. She is taking advantage of you and using you.
I don’t like what you said about friends coming and going. It’s a very selfish thought, especially for the friend who has been your best friend since 8th grade at school.
That girl is flirting with your best friend and you.
I think you should stop helping this girl and hanging out with her alone right away. Because this is cheating.

[Aida Omar]

You can’t save your friend from drowning if she wants to drown herself. askApril is right. Pack your bags and get out of this toxic environment.
If your friend makes an excuse that she is just being rude because she is stressed, ask her if I were to be rude to you because of stress, would you forgive me? Show her that frustration is not a license to be rude.

[Aida Omar]

Wow, April, you answered in the right detail, and I learned a lot from it too.
Acens, from here, you get the idea that the girl is not interested in you at all, and the girl knows that you are crazy about her, so she is taking you for granted. As long as you chase her, she will go to someone else. Stop talking to her immediately.
And AskApril was right. Go to the gym, focus on your work, and personality. When you improve yourself and meet other girls, maybe this girl will come back, or you will find someone better.
April, I have a similar problem. I like a boy. Earlier, he used to talk to me nicely, and we used to go on dates, but gradually his interest in me has disappeared.
We still talk, but he doesn’t talk to me properly. Whenever he talks, I get frustrated like he’s confused. Now tell me what I should do?
Please give me an expert advice

[Aida Omar]

I think this guy is a red flag factory. I think you should tease him, show her your value, and then drop him. Until such a man proves his worth, he considers a girl only a convenience.
AskApril, you are right that let such a person chase him, but I say give him a mental shock
And please don’t waste your time with someone who doesn’t care about your health and is only interested in their own pleasure.

[Aida Omar]

AskApril, your way of advising is amazing, and I salute your psychological approach 👏 that you shouldn’t be afraid of this girl, but make yourself better.
And don’t fight with your partner because fighting. Your partner will move away from you.
I think don’t tell him you checked his phone. When a man feels like he’s been caught, he gets defensive.
When he feels like you’re completely unaware and happy, he gets scared. Why is she so relaxed? Why doesn’t she care about mine?

[Aida Omar]

If you like her, be bold and direct.
Don’t text her. Call her and ask her for a date. If she says yes, take her out on a date and tell her clearly how much you like her so that she doesn’t think of you as just a family friend.

[Aida Omar]

Look, brother, what you did is not called a “Date” it’s called community service. You’re taking a girl out or having a picnic for the whole neighborhood.
When you name Josh and Zoey and everyone else, you kill your chance right then and there.
Meanwhile, I agree with April that you are confusing yourself and confusing the girl, too.
So you should use the word “Date” so that the girl knows what your intention is.
If you like her, take her on a date and tell her everything.

[Aida Omar]

This is not just an anger issue; it’s a safety issue. A woman who can chase you 1500 miles away can be mentally unstable. I think Karan will take some distance from this relationship for her mental health until her boyfriend legally ends this relationship.
And like AskApril is right, it’s most important that you two be together. If you fight each other, the ex-wife will win because that’s probably what she wants.

[Aida Omar]

Brother, at the age of 39, doesn’t suit shying away. Girls don’t like boys who are shy and very innocent.
I think the girl is using you for validation. When she gets tired of boring boyfriends, she taxes you.
AskApril was right that you should take her on a date, so that your confusion is over.
Plan drinks or dinner to get out of the friend zone, not coffee. If she says no, at least you won’t be wasting your time.

[Aida Omar]

Wow, AskApril, you are right that the boy is losing interest and playing the field.
Don’t go by his excuses, but look at his actions. Not being together on New Year’s Eve is the biggest sign.
And I think when a man still doesn’t introduce you to his friends after five months and leaves you alone on occasions like New Year’s, he’s not afraid of you anymore.
He’s hiding you, he’s keeping his options open so that when he finds someone better, he can leave you without any burden.
And please ask yourself, are you so cheap that someone would just use you as they please?

[Aida Omar]

I was very sad to read your story. You were just a means for him to get out of the marriage. Now that his goal has been achieved, he has left you.
And the person who used you only for his own purposes and is now ignoring you can never be your friend.
Wow, April, I really liked your advice that you have to protect your self-respect and stay away from men who are already committed.
So, stop crying about it, work on yourself, go to the gym, make new friends, and wear new clothes.
I hope you find a good person.

[Aida Omar]

Stop thinking that you were more available. If a person really likes you, they will give you time. They will not run away from you. You did what a normal person does when they like someone.
I think he’s a smooth player who gives a lot of attention at the beginning and then suddenly disappears so that you keep thinking about him
I think you shouldn’t make a show of yourself by messaging him again.
AskApril What’s your expert advice about it?

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