[Luxurious Girl]

Sounds like this isn’t just a sex drought , it’s an appreciation drought. Paying the bills isn’t romance, and bedroom checklists aren’t exactly seductive. If you both feel unvalued, the spark won’t magically show up. Try fixing the connection first, and if he only “wants” while you keep giving, you might need to ask whether this relationship is a partnership or a subscription service.

[Luxurious Girl]

You didn’t catch him cheating on you. You caught him being drunk in public. If you like him, just act normal and see what happens. If he’s still cool sober, great. If not, congratulations, he’s just a funny chapter in your thesis on Poor Decision-Making.

[Luxurious Girl]

Avoid sending multiple follow-up texts too quickly. Sometimes over-texting can make someone pull back. Let him initiate the next step when he’s ready. That’s how we can see if he is interested in you too.

[Luxurious Girl]

Sit down together and make a clear budget, outline all debts, and map out how you will tackle them as a team, but also clarify what each of you is responsible for. Transparency and accountability are key.

[Luxurious Girl]

Right now, his actions show that he’s open to casual communication, but it doesn’t necessarily indicate romantic interest. Keep interactions friendly and light until you have more clarity.

[Luxurious Girl]

It sounds like what you felt was real and mutual, and that’s not a small thing. At the same time, he’s showing you that he’s still emotionally tied up in his past relationship. Even if he cares about you, someone who is still dealing with ex isn’t fully available.

Stay friendly if you want, but protect your heart. If he truly wants something with you, he’ll come back when he’s fully single, emotionally clear, and ready to choose you without hesitation. Until then, you deserve someone who isn’t conflicted.

[Member]

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