[Trixie Ann]

You have the right to be jealous and keeping secret also means cheating. Your boyfriend is not faithful to you.

[Trixie Ann]

You broke up because of jealousy and crossed a boundary by checking her phone. If you want of any chance by fixing this, you need to truly work on trust and give her the space she asked for. Don’t rush to win her back. Show through actions that you’ve learned from this.

[Trixie Ann]

For me, you need to stop hinting and be clear. If you have real feelings, tell him directly instead of hoping he reads between the lines. Right now he’s comfortable with how things are close, emotional, but without commitment. If you don’t define it, nothing will change.

If he doesn’t feel the same, you may need space to protect your feelings.

[Trixie Ann]

If she said shea has a boyfriend, take that at face value. It doesn’t matter if she smiles, jokes, or said coffee sounds good. She clearly set a boundary. Maybe she’s just naturally friendly. Don’t try to look for hidden meanings in it.

If she’s interested and single in the future, she’ll make that clear. For now, respect what she told you and don’t push it.

[Trixie Ann]

For me, you can’t change him, he has to want that for himself. The only thing you can do is tell him honestly how it makes you feel and how it affects your respect and attraction. If he’s comfortable being controlled and you’re not okay with that dynamic, it’s a compatibility issue. Decide if you can accept him as he is. Don’t stay hoping he’ll become someone else.

[Trixie Ann]

Hello, You’re not crazy for feeling triggered, there’s history there. But instead of focusing on her, focus on your husband. The real issue is his defensiveness, not her friend request. Have a calm, direct conversation with him before the event and agree on clear boundaries, For example: No private chat, No solo interactions, transparency.

No confrontation, unless she crosses the line. The strongest message you can send is unity with your husband and self-assurance, not insecurity.

[Trixie Ann]

Loving someone doesn’t mean shrinking yourself or forcing yourself into their passions. And support doesn’t mean doing everything with him, it means trusting him and respecting each other’s independence. If there’s no trust, the relationship will always feel unsafe. Talk honestly about your insecurity and boundaries, but don’t guilt yourself into becoming someone you’re not. A healthy relationship allow space, not control.

[Trixie Ann]

Hi Soybean, For me, he is your manager, he’s older, and he’s already seeing someone, those are three red flags. Flirting at work doesn’t mean real intentions, and mixed signals usually mean he’s enjoying attention, not commitment. Don’t get the first move and don’t get involve with the boss. Keep it professional and protect your job and your feelings. If he actually wants something real, he’ll be clear and single.

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