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  • in reply to: Help- IS HE PLAYING MIND GAMES W/ ME? #53029
    Stephanie Ellise
    Member #382,786

    For me, you don’t get to fall back for excuse of being bad at dating instead, learning how it works. Asking him directly if he’s interested is not attractive. He’s not playing games but showing interest and he’s not getting encouragement from you. men often enjoy the chase so if you don’t give him something to pursue you’re losing his interest.

    in reply to: What are his actions really saying? #53028
    Stephanie Ellise
    Member #382,786

    I think that guy likes you, and it’s obvious but the problem is, you still committed with your current husband even you’re feeling for him was fade. If you really like the other guy, just get divorce with your current husband so you won’t get a problem in the future and you’ll have a peace of mind.

    in reply to: am i being an overprotective jealous psycho? #53027
    Stephanie Ellise
    Member #382,786

    I thinks it’s a bit unusual because your parents are still restricting you from dating even you’re at the age of 20, but the issue is that carrying same control to your relationship and expecting your boyfriend to go to sleep when you do is not fair for him. Also unfair to be upset with your friend even she doesn’t even know you’re dating him. You should tell to your friend about your relationship so she will be aware of it.

    in reply to: I need her.. #53026
    Stephanie Ellise
    Member #382,786

    All you can do is to plan every steps even she’s pregnant or not, you have to be prepared for whatever happen next. Teenage pregnancy is never easy and she needs her parent to support and guide her. You need to understand that you two are still in minor age so you can’t marry her yet. Be understanding of your situation and of her and don’t rush things.

    in reply to: Does my crushes mom know that I like her daughter? #53025
    Stephanie Ellise
    Member #382,786

    Yes I think the mom of your crush is aware that you like her daughter. Even she knows it, just act normal and don’t be bothered. Focus on the girl you want and on how to make her happy. Always make an effort to make her smile and appreciate you.

    in reply to: Marriage ultimatum a mistake? #53024
    Stephanie Ellise
    Member #382,786

    Giving an ultimatum is not a good idea. If he can’t give what you want, like marriage, I think it’s time to step back and move on. Maybe you’ll meet someone that can marry you without giving an ultimatum. Never settle for less. Find a man who can give you assurance make you happy.

    in reply to: Blunt, maybe over simplified, but . . . any opinions? #53023
    Stephanie Ellise
    Member #382,786

    I think you’re feeling a bit disillusion and that’s understandable. People needs can be met by different people and relationship usually offer more than just intimacy. things like emotional safety and a sense of partnership are harder to replace. Intimacy is important,but it feel most fulfilling when it’s connected to those deeper layers. You might be underestimating non-physical connection and long-term satisfaction.

    in reply to: Girlfriend of 4 years is moving away… #53022
    Stephanie Ellise
    Member #382,786

    My advice is if possible, you also move to the city on where she will go for two years and try to find a job there so you will be able to be with her while she’s finishing her grad school. In that way, you two can still be together.

    in reply to: My girlfriend ignoring my phone calls #53020
    Stephanie Ellise
    Member #382,786

    I suggest to keep calm and wait for her to return your calls. Trust your girlfriend when you’re not with her, as long as she never cheated on you. I know you’re concern for her especially for her safety but don’t panic, it won’t make things better if you keep overthinking on what she’s doing if you’re not around. just wait until she’s back.

    in reply to: he has not kissed me #53017
    Stephanie Ellise
    Member #382,786

    One month dating is too early to overthink because he didn’t kiss you yet. Just wait and don’t make the first move. just enjoy every moment having conversation with him and sharing thoughts and experience. His kiss will arrive in a perfect timing.

    in reply to: My friend is giving me mixed signals. #53016
    Stephanie Ellise
    Member #382,786

    Maybe there’s a history between the both of you because you’ve dated her mom in the past but if you’re both single now and there’s no issue with her mom anymore, then go and ask her a date so you can see if she likes you too by saying yes to a date. Age doesn’t matter as long as you too like each other and there’s no other people involve.

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