[Anonymous]

Hello,
My girlfriend left for the weekend with some friends. She told me that she will be staying in contact with me the whole weekend. She kept her promise all the way until yesterday afternoon when she texted me. I replied to her later on but she never replied back. So I text here several more times…again no response. I texted her this morning an called a few more times today. Still no response! She’s not returning my phone calls or text at all. Some of my text showed a signs of being a little upset but nothing to extreme. I know the multiple texting and phone calls may be too much but I am concerned of her well being.I think I know what to do but I don’t to get ahead of myself. What do you suggest?

Thanks

[Anonymous]

Let me also add our neighbors were telling her not to go because some of the people that she did not know seemed up to no good.
In addition, I do believe I messed up with what I was doing. What do you suggest I do to bring back lines of communication?

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

The weekend is almost over (since it’s a long weekend), so she should be back today or tomorrow. You’ve already contacted her, so you need to hang tight and wait for her to return your calls.

For future, you need to find a way to cool down when she’s not with you. If you don’t trust her, then deal with that issue; and if you feel excluded from her social life, then deal with that, but showing panic because you think she’s going to cheat on you when she’s never once showed you reason to feel that way, just makes her feel smothered. 😕 I’m sure that’s not your intention — you just wanted some reassurance, but if she’s not going to give it to you, smothering her with multiple texts and calls in a row aren’t going to make things better. It’s not sexy or cool for a guy to show panic. 😳

For now, when she does get back to you, apologize for your panic attack, and express your happiness that she’s back. Flowers work! 🙂

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[Anonymous]

What type of flowers do you suggest?

Thanks!

[Anonymous]

What type of flowers do you suggest? Should I wait until she contacts me? Or just suprise her by sending it to her job?

Thanks!

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

Any kind of flowers work — roses are hard to miss with. Anything that is in season and beautiful and fragrant will be appreciated.

Don’t wait until she contacts you — send them to her office with a light and happy note. THAT will get a response from her, guaranteed. 🙂

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[Stephanie Ellise]

I suggest to keep calm and wait for her to return your calls. Trust your girlfriend when you’re not with her, as long as she never cheated on you. I know you’re concern for her especially for her safety but don’t panic, it won’t make things better if you keep overthinking on what she’s doing if you’re not around. just wait until she’s back.

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