[Adil]

5 years wasted, don’t give him another 5 days. Leave him with his wife and a shattered life. Find a ‘king’ who will be proud to show you to the world instead of hiding you.
Revenge doesn’t bring peace; it comes from improving your life. Let this man live with his lies; that’s his punishment.
I like Ask April’s expert advice that you’re more angry at yourself than the man because you bet on the wrong person. She made it clear that you will never be this man’s ‘priority’. First, his addiction will come, then his daughter, then his wife, and you might end up somewhere in the end.
April Masini suggested that it’s better to take responsibility than to take revenge and leave a man who can never respect you.

[Adil]

Eric saying, “You’re so beautiful that someone else will scoop you up,” isn’t a compliment; it’s his own insecurity. He wants to reserve you like an item on sale. Instead of deleting your account, put up even better pictures on your profile. Make him feel like you’re a prize he has to work hard to win.
AskApril is right that when someone starts asking for commitment before you even meet them for the first time, they’re putting pressure on you. And April Masini says that monogamy has to be earned, it’s not a calling card to be grabbed the first time.

[Adil]

I really liked April’s expert advice, Run! She pointed out that a man who has 4 children under 5 years old and is not taking responsibility despite being the father of a 10-month-old baby, will never be serious about you. According to April, he does not respect you or care about your “No Sex” decision. So break up and find your peace of mind.
You are a “Queen” who is just starting her life. Don’t waste your youth and career with a man who only knows how to manipulate you. Set this chapter on fire and enter your new city with new swag!

[Adil]

Is he crying in front of you about his ex? Absolutely not!
You are not a therapy center. When a man says that holding hands hurts him, understand that his “emotional battery” is dead. You don’t go on a long drive with a dead battery.
April was absolutely right. Be thankful that he told you the truth after two dates, not two years. You saved yourself from wasting your precious time.
If a guy is saying he’s not ready, then listen to him. He’s not “compatible” with you because his mind is elsewhere and his heart is stuck in old memories. Stop being confused and move on!

[Adil]

Is she your neighbor? Great! Don’t ignore her every time you pass her (because ignoring her is a sign of hurt). Instead, give her a little casual smile like she means nothing to you anymore, and walk away. Your “I don’t care anymore” vibe will drive her crazy.
Be the king. Make her realize that your time is not cheap, and that she can’t play hot and cold whenever she wants.
I liked AskApril’s advice that the best social media vacation for both of you is to disappear from Instagram and Facebook for 3 months. As long as you are on her screen all the time, neither she nor you will get clarity. Offer to meet for coffee after 3 months; until then, give her a chance to move on from her old marriage and the drama with you.

[Adil]

You are not a “convenience store” that he can come to whenever he wants, relax a little, and leave without any commitment. This is a buffet party for him. He has also raised the tension in the relationship, and he is getting access to you.
Know your worth. Be so hot and confident that he realizes what he has lost. April has given the perfect expert advice that as long as you are stuck in this “in-between” phase, you will never feel single nor will you meet someone new who can give you the commitment you deserve.
Stop wasting your time and show him that you are not an option but a “prize”. Only when you cut him out of your life will he miss you. You haven’t even let him go through the pain of the breakup yet!

[Adil]

Listen! When a guy says “you’re not my type” but still stays with you, he’s just using you to pass the time. You’re a “comfort zone” for him, not a “prize”. The day he finds his “type”, he’ll leave you behind in a second.
AskApril was absolutely right that you’re 42, and you’re wasting your time on a man who doesn’t find you sexy, doesn’t love you, and isn’t good in bed. End this relationship immediately. Find a man who thinks you’re a “Goddess” and appreciates you.

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