[Herry]

You said you didn’t “get it right.” The truth is, the girl understands everything; she just can’t accept being rejected. When you say, “I don’t think of you that way,” she feels like her attractiveness and beauty are being questioned.

AskApril said the friendship is over, but I say the friendship is now on a “ventilator.” If you gave her hope, you’re a sinner, and if you didn’t immediately create distance, you’re playing with her emotions.
AskApril is absolutely right that you can’t see her as “just a friend” like you used to; reality has changed. So give her some sp

[Herry]

Look, what AskApril said is spot on. April is truly a “Relationship Expert” because she’s straight to the point and not emotional; she’s a really classy and intelligent woman who knows how the male mind works.
If you keep crying, you’re giving your boyfriend away to this “work frenemy” on a plate. Listen to April, stop crying, go prepared, and be so cool with your boyfriend that the other girl feels like an “outsider” herself.

[Herry]

Look, it sounds very sympathetic to AskApril to say that the girl will be “forced” to do so, but the reality is a little harsh. When someone is transferring to a college near you and still breaks up with you, it’s not a problem. It’s a sign of changing priorities.
Let her feel that your life doesn’t revolve around her. When she sees that you’re not going crazy after her, that’s when she’ll realize your lack.
Maintain your dignity, that’s the biggest win.

[Herry]

You said sorry, apologized, but he still ignored you? Stop it! The more you chase him, the more he will “suck it up”. Your self-respect is more important than your marriage.
If his parents are already against it and the guy is “disappearing” instead of supporting you in difficult times, then understand what will happen after marriage. He will leave you alone in front of the in-laws.
April is right, don’t hold back any longer. Let him make contact himself. And when he does talk, instead of fighting, say “I missed you”. Break the cycle and stop being passive-aggressive.

[Herry]

This is a very selfish move. Whenever she feels like it, she rips open your old wounds just to confirm that she’s still the “Queen” of your world.
Next time you get a message “Hi” or “Checking in”, ignore it. Act as if your mobile number has changed, or as if you’re so busy you don’t remember who it is. As long as you keep replying, she will continue to enjoy watching you restless like this. Even if you don’t want to block, leave a “Seen” message.
Because silence is the biggest slap you can give.

[Herry]

A woman who would leave a “perfect” man for the sake of her children and granddaughter and go to a cheater who has already humiliated her doesn’t need your love; she needs therapy. You tried to set the “vibe” of her life, but she likes to live in the trash.
Roll up your dishwashing hands and get out of there. The investment you made wasn’t wasted; it was just in the wrong place. Next time, choose someone who will consider your effort as worth it, not a burden.

[Member]

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