[Cooper]

What you should do is stop it, because if what you’re saying is true, that he also likes you, then why didn’t he choose you? It means he loves the woman he married.

If you continue this, you could ruin their relationship, and that’s not a good thing to do. Just find someone else and move on from him. You can also distract yourself and keep busy so it will be easier for you to move on.

[Cooper]

If you are already divorced, it will be easier for you to move on because there is nothing left to go back to. That would be better for your healing.

Try dating again, it can help speed up your healing process. Once you become attached to someone new, it can help you move on more quickly.

It’s better if you are physically and mentally ready before committing again, but don’t close your heart to others.

[Cooper]

That’s how it really is at that age, when a girl and a boy are friends, it’s often unavoidable that one of them ends up developing feelings because of how close and emotionally attached they become.

I think you should observe first if you can see any signs that she might like you as more than a friend. That way, if you ever decide to confess there’s a bigger chance she might say yes especially if you’ve noticed signs that she feels the same way you do.

Because it’s true that confessing feelings to a friend is risky, it could become awkward and you might end up distancing from each other.

But as a guy, you’re usually the one who should make the first move so she can feel that you like her too and maybe she might eventually develop feelings for you as well.

[Cooper]

If you’re okay with just being a booty call, then that’s up to you. You seem comfortable with what you’re doing, especially since you’re exes. As long as it’s clear for both of you that it only goes as far as that for now, then that’s fine, there’s no problem with it.

Just make sure you both know your boundaries and that there are no personal or emotional complications involved.

[Member]

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