[Cooper]

What you should do is stop it, because if what you’re saying is true, that he also likes you, then why didn’t he choose you? It means he loves the woman he married.

If you continue this, you could ruin their relationship, and that’s not a good thing to do. Just find someone else and move on from him. You can also distract yourself and keep busy so it will be easier for you to move on.

[Cooper]

If you are already divorced, it will be easier for you to move on because there is nothing left to go back to. That would be better for your healing.

Try dating again, it can help speed up your healing process. Once you become attached to someone new, it can help you move on more quickly.

It’s better if you are physically and mentally ready before committing again, but don’t close your heart to others.

[Cooper]

That’s how it really is at that age, when a girl and a boy are friends, it’s often unavoidable that one of them ends up developing feelings because of how close and emotionally attached they become.

I think you should observe first if you can see any signs that she might like you as more than a friend. That way, if you ever decide to confess there’s a bigger chance she might say yes especially if you’ve noticed signs that she feels the same way you do.

Because it’s true that confessing feelings to a friend is risky, it could become awkward and you might end up distancing from each other.

But as a guy, you’re usually the one who should make the first move so she can feel that you like her too and maybe she might eventually develop feelings for you as well.

[Cooper]

If you’re okay with just being a booty call, then that’s up to you. You seem comfortable with what you’re doing, especially since you’re exes. As long as it’s clear for both of you that it only goes as far as that for now, then that’s fine, there’s no problem with it.

Just make sure you both know your boundaries and that there are no personal or emotional complications involved.

[Cooper]

It’s obvious that he only wanted sex from you. When you did a sexual act but then didn’t go through with what he wanted, he got angry. You should stop talking to that guy, it doesn’t even matter anymore whether he’s attracted to you or not. What matters is that his intentions are clear, and you need to protect yourself. That kind of situation could end up putting you in danger.

Choose someone who has good intentions and will respect you. Don’t waste your time on that kind of person.

[Cooper]

You already knew from the start that being from different religions was a big deal, so why did you still spend time with him?

You should be looking for someone who you know is compatible with you, but you still chose to go on dates with him. If I were you, I would stop it already because your feelings might only get deeper.

[Cooper]

What she means is that she doesn’t want to anymore. She clearly said that she wants to move on first, no matter how much you beg for another chance.

It’s up to you now if you want to keep pursuing her until she might give you another opportunity again, but I’m not saying it’s guaranteed that she will give you another chance, you’re just taking a risk.

[Cooper]

Just explain to him properly what kind of setup you want. If he gets hurt, it’s better that it happens early on rather than delaying it, because in the end, the result will likely be the same anyway.

[Cooper]

There’s no guarantee that this will work or not. In your situation, you and your boyfriend already have a child, which means you are no longer the only priority, your child comes first.

As for the other woman, it seems like he really does have some interest in her, but since she still has a boyfriend, he’s not making a move. Regarding his reluctance to have more children, you should consider family planning so both of your needs—especially your sex life, can be met.

Lastly, trying to control the relationship isn’t healthy. Instead, focus on what you can do to make your relationship better.

[Cooper]

I think you’re just attracted to them, and it can’t really be called love yet because love has a much deeper meaning. It’s not just about happiness and excitement, sometimes it also involves sacrifice, heartbreak, and more. So in my opinion, you’re just attracted to them. Maybe you could try going on dates with them so you can figure out where your feelings might grow deeper.

[Member]

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