[Yasir]

If a man is an ’emotional wreck’ from the very first meeting, send him to a psychologist, not into your heart. Taking on an ’emotional repair’ project always ends in disaster.
You’re asking, Why did he do that? The answer is simple: Because he was a weak and cowardly man. He never deserved you. There’s no answer to that “Why” that will bring you back to peace.
AskApril was right that the boy was a “Red Flag” from the start. The way to talk to a broken-hearted person is to humiliate yourself further.
Dear, just remember this: Don’t fall in love with “potential.” Fall in love with “reality.”
Next time you see a wretched person, show him the way, not your home address.

[Yasir]

The girl who is pretending to be 29 and 26 years old to get rejected was just a way of avoiding it. The truth is that if she were really interested, the three-year age gap would have meant nothing. The fact is that by the time the boy dared to take the first step, the girl’s interest had “expired”.
And the biggest enemy was that female co-worker! Dude, who told her to go and be the middleman and fix the “relationship”? She ruined all the suspense and masculine charm. Whenever a third person steps in, things always get worse.
AskApril was right that calling the girl or meeting her in person, because a “male voice” is a huge asset that has a much better impact than lifeless messages on social media. How can you be afraid of rejection? Success comes only when you go ahead and take a chance!

[Yasir]

Hi is not your fiance, this is “Red Flag HQ”. The guy himself is on mood stabilizers and is calling the girl “manic”? That’s called Projecting.
AskApril was absolutely right, invite him, if he doesn’t go and threatens, I’ll leave,” then make his threat a reality and let him go. You’ll never get your father like again, but you can find men like him on every street corner.
And when a man says, “I’ll leave,” you should drop him off at the door and show the way. This “packing” threat is just a control tool.
You should use your points, pack up, and catch the first flight. If you find the house empty later, then consider the garbage cleaned out! Marriage to such a guy means lifelong prison.

[Yasir]

Did you go to be a “girlfriend” or open a “rehabilitation center”? When a man says right from the start, My life is ruined, I’m a bad person,” you should listen to him and run away! He’s giving a warning, not a challenge.
And by the way, when a man ignores your text or call for months, it doesn’t mean he’s busy or out of minutes. It means he’s discarded you. You should have enough self-respect to cut the line right there.
AskApril was absolutely right that this girl found “trauma” while looking for “love.” Be thankful that the garbage cleared up on its own. Block this guy and never make the mistake of “fixing” him by finding a poor man again.

[Yasir]

This guy is looking for “home delivery”. After 8 months, he suddenly remembered love. And that too when his 4-month relationship ended? This is not true love; it is just a “rebound”. When he could not find peace outside, he remembered his old girlfriend because it is easy to play the emotional cards of love, child, and old attachment.
Oh dear! Block this guy or limit him to “co-parenting”.
He is only here to erase his loneliness. If he were really serious, he would not have spent 4 months flirting with someone else. Don’t be his backup plan!

[Yasir]

orry, you dropped your “standard.” When the guy made it clear, “I don’t want a commitment,” you should have walked away. But you’re still asking for ideas for flirty texts.
A guy who makes you wait to confirm a fourth date and then says, Just for fun, is not “Mr. Right,” he’s “Mr. Time-Waste.” AskApril’s expert guide is commendable because she said it so powerfully and directly: When a guy says he doesn’t want a commitment, listen to him! Don’t waste your time trying to change him.
Ask April’s guidance is truly top-notch. She doesn’t sugarcoat it; she gets right to the point. Experts like these are what we need in today’s dating world to help us break out of our “delusions”.

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